Wondering if men are unobservant on purpose. I give you a back rub and say you should give me one next time. Everyday for a week you say something like oh my neck hurts, or I worked hard today my back aches. And they pretend to rub your shoulders for 30 to 45 seconds and they're distracted again. I am giving up on offering my man anything pleasurable till I receive some kind of pleasure in return for the many blowjobs and rubs and little special gifts I get him. It's not fair for one person to put forth all the effort.