I have had many guys like me, ask me out, chase me, woo me etc. However, many I haven't liked, a few were interesting and even fewer I genuinly liked.
The last two groups of men just never wanted to pursue a committed relationship with me. They weren't assholes, immature etc. They were nice guys who didn't like me. Its fine, I know I am perhaps too hideous for these guys or something. I know this may sound controversial, but I wish I could be ugly so I could simply blame it on my looks. To realise that I have a shit personality/character because of which guys don't want me.. makes me wonder what is so nasty about me. But that is an endless story, my real question is.. What reasons do guys who act interested have, to reject a girl? I would just like to know why they never liked me enough to pursue a relationship with me.. namely why "I'm not worth it"
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Well it maybe because you aren't opening yourself to a committed relationship. Let it be known through action that, that's what you want.
What makes them commit? stupidity! jk.
in all seriousness, love. If the man falls in love with you and you show readiness to commit with him, there should be no problem. It has to be mutual commitment.
And don't wish you were ugly girl. Embrace that beauty!0
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