You can prompt him in a way where he will still need to ask you out but it will still speed up the process. Text him and say, "I have recently developed this strange problem. Every Friday and Saturday night, I get hungry and the only thing that relieves the problem is going out to dinner. I am afraid that it's going to happen again this weekend. Do you think you might be able to help me with this problem?" If he doesn't ask you out after this text, it is time to move on.
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Those who are aggressive and take initiative are those who get what they want in life. If you want something, take it. Don't let anyone get in your way. If you desire to date this person, then you need to be the one to ask him, not the other way around. One must be bold if they ever expect to have any control over their lives.
You may have to do it yourself.
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i am shy when it comes to ask a girl out.. not that shy.. just a little, but there are some songs when i listen to them i can ask any girl out, it's like inspiration
the answer to your question is: make him know that you're interested or you want to go out with him.. maybe he think that you don't want him..lol, as long as it takes, right? There's no saying when he will, could be tomorrow, could be next week, could be never. The only thing you can do, is encourage him to do it. For example mention that you've been wanting to see a movie, and see what he says. He may also be waiting for you to ask him out. Also, he may just not be in to you at all, and is just looking to be friends
I wonder why you don't make the first move? Feminist has failed us. The idea that men should make the first move, comes from chivalry, which defines male masculinity
I waited 2 years... long story short and in case you couldnt guess she said no but It depends on how shy he is plus how much confidence he has
how about you make the first move just be confident even shy guys likes that ;)
Only you can "set a time limit."
It depends how "into you" he is.if he's shy y don't u make the 1st move then?
He probably will never ask you out.
Much longer than just asking him out yourself
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