Would you date a virgin?

Assuming the person has a great personality & you like them. You find out he or she is a virgin. Would you date them?

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  • Being a virgin wouldn't stop me from dating her, but depending on how old she was and whether she'd had past relationships (and how long they'd lasted) I might be concerned that we might not be compatible sexually. It depends if she's just someone who happens to be a virgin or whether she's someone that wants to be a virgin and isn't that keen on the idea of sex.

    If I was dating a virgin I wouldn't mind waiting (within reason) for her to be ready, especially she could show affection in other ways earlier. (Cuddling, kissing and that type of thing.)

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What Guys Said 37

  • I will only MARRY a virgin. I said "marry" because I'm into marriage more than random relationships before it.

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  • Virginity is an advantage, not a handicap. It means that you are guaranteed not to infect your SO with an STD and that exes cannot cast as deep a shadow on the relationship. No humiliating mental images of your lover getting shagged by someone else, no gnawing questions about how you compare with the previous model buzzing in your head like angry wasps. Every couple must ultimately develop their own unique style by exploring each other, so the true value of "experience" with other people is really quite open to question.

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  • it depends, really. I mean, obviously I'm going to want sex at some point. But if she's a virgin then that makes it very likely she will have hang-ups about it, which only complicate matters. We could still be friends, though. I can 'not have sex' with many friends without agreeing not to have sex with anyone else.

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  • I've done it before. Was the best relationship I ever had.

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  • I have the utmost respect for people that waits until marriage before sex. Virginity won't be a factor whether or not I date someone. I would however, prefer if she has the same sexual experience or as close to as I have. Having said that, many guys would probably want to put their flag there first, so in other words I would definitely date a virgin.

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  • What most of you girls don't realize is that guys in most cases PREFER virgins. We like the feeling of bringing new and exciting things to her and knowing that we are her first. Girls like to be dominated therefore they usually prefer a guy who has experience.

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  • Of course I will, that doesn't change who she is as a person. I have dated a virgin, and I took her virginity, and even though sex wasn't good, it never changed how I saw her.
    Virginity has nothing to do with my decision to date someone or not.

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  • My answer is yes because you said i've found that she has a great personality and that i like her. To me this means that she is: pretty, understanding enough to handle my bullcrap, can take a joke, open minded, has a great laugh. Who wouldn't want to date a girl like that?

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  • I totally would.

    I've had girls not date me because I was a virgin though. Twice now things had been going great and we were fond of each other and then she ceased all communication once she realized I was inexperienced.

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  • Yes I would date a virgin. I don't see how this would be a deal breaker for the vast majority of people.

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  • Yes, I would.

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  • Yes , i would date a virgin i see no problem :-D

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  • Why is this virginity thing such a big deal on this site?

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  • I think people get a big ego boost when they take it from somebody. Especially if the said person is very attractive. Just my opinion though.

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  • Im a virgin, so I would like to date a virgin too

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  • I think I might not because from what I heard my friends say they are very clingy after she loses her virginity to you

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    • Lol so I can't have preferences... fucking hypocrites

    • you don't want your girlfriend to be attached to you?

  • Is she down for ending that whole 'being a virgin' thing soon?

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  • I have no problems with that and it makes no difference. My only deal-breaker is if she was a religious girl waiting till marriage. I'll wait when you're ready but not till marriage.

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  • Somebody has to date them so they won't be a virgin anymore. All none virgins were a virgin at some time who eventually were dated by someone.

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  • Yes, I'd date a virgin.

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  • Yes ofc. For me, she doesn't HAVE to be a virgin, but its a huge plus if she is.

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  • I am one. Can I date myself?

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  • Yes I definitely would, virginity shouldn't have any bearing on your attraction to someone. I think it would make our first time that bit more special.

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  • depends if she┬┤s one of those "i wait till marriage" people or not.

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  • I can't see myself going, "Oh, you're a virgin... My interest in you has completely faded away."

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  • That doesn't matter to me

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  • Of course, I would.

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  • Virgin here, and I will date a virgin too. <3.

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  • This even a question? Of course.

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  • I'm a virgin myself, so yeah, of course I would date her.

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What Girls Said 13

  • Yes, that’s not a deciding factor. To be honest, that’s attractive in a way and comforting to know that they are less likely to have an STD and that we can share something uniquely special together.

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  • Yes, no problem, don't really care, I'm a virgin too.

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  • Sex is not a high priority, personality character, easy going, pretty with sense of humor is what most important because at the end you do not date a girl or guy because of he or she being a virgin. you met that person first for his or her personality not beause she had not had sex before

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  • As long as its not for religious reasons I'm game.

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  • Yes. I would be honored if I was the woman he gave it to but even if I wasn't, I respect his decision. If he is a virgin, he has his reasons and it is his body so I would respect this about him. As an added bonus, if I was the one that he gave it to, at least I would know that I wouldn't get an STD.

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  • Yupperzzzz

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  • If he is willing to accept I'm not, then yes.

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  • Yes, why not?

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  • I think most men would like virgins.

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  • I definitely would.

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  • as long as he's not religious and not trying to convert me in any way I would

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  • They're still people, and who says anything?
    They could be incredible enough for you to take there virginity

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  • yeah i would.

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