Why do so many guys wanna fuck me but not date me?
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Assuming you are an attractive 30 year old lady, well, a guy might not see you as girlfriend material
Most men in there 30's who are single are probably looking to settle down
Too be honest, its how you act with them that will dictate how they treat you
if you are overly flirty, and touchy, they are gonna think about having sex with you, and well if you let them do that too soon, they won't look forward to dating because they already had sex with you...
Make them work for it a bit, be flirty, but keep them busy, and dont let them get too far too fast0