Guys, Why do so many guys wanna fuck me but not date me?

[Anonymous]

Why do so many guys wanna fuck me but not date me?

[ScruffyNerfHerder]

People typically only want to date maybe 5% of the people they meet.

But for guys, that doesn't mean that they don't want to fuck the remaining 75% of people they find attractive.

The problem may have nothing to do with you at all, just that you aren't their type and simply fall into their "fuck, but don't date" category.

As for fixing the problem... My guess is that you don't have a very strict idea of what kind of guy you really want. You aren't filtering men hard enough, so guys with whom you would be best suited are less likely to be the guy you happen to be talking to at a given time. That's just a hunch.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Assuming you are an attractive 30 year old lady, well, a guy might not see you as girlfriend material
Most men in there 30's who are single are probably looking to settle down

Too be honest, its how you act with them that will dictate how they treat you
if you are overly flirty, and touchy, they are gonna think about having sex with you, and well if you let them do that too soon, they won't look forward to dating because they already had sex with you...

Make them work for it a bit, be flirty, but keep them busy, and dont let them get too far too fast

[MadeInAmerica]

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It's always gonna be like that. People want sex but don't want to put forth the effort for a relationship.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

If you feel a guy just wants you for sex than you need to talk
things over with him and explain that your not wanting to be
used by men for sex and you want a guy to date, love you,
hold you, cuddle.. All guys need put in their place that make
you feel uncomfortable.. I am this type of guy i like dating and
when sex does come up i want girl to know i am only having
sex with her cause i want it to be a everlasting loving long
relationship and i want more out of it than just sex.

[That-Guy]

You're choosing these type of guys and ignoring the ones who want to date you for better or worse.

This question is equivalent to: "why are all the girls i go out with are sluts?"

But all guys want to fuck you.

[I_am_repulsive]

Maybe they don't see you as a relationship material. Is there something your putting off that tells them that otherwise?

[Kenzy-Yinn]

Because sadly... they see you as "f-material"
and not "dating-material"
As cruel as it may sound... But you just happen to stumble upon the wrong guys

[Theguyoverthere]

Are you dating off the internet? A lot of guys try using those sites for discreet nsa.

[Asker]

Yea a lot off the internet

[Theguyoverthere]

I feel that largely is contributing to your case. Granted I'm sure other girls have had issues like yours happen with "irl" meets, I just know the internet is notorious for this issue.

[usernameisnttaken]

I don't know. I don't know you so I can't say. However... is there something about you that makes guys not want to date you?

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Because there's a difference between sexy and cute. Also, guys would rather date younger girls.

[Asker]

What do u mean by that? Are u saying u think I'm sexy or cute? And I date plenty of guys my age and older as well as younger guys. No matter what age they r it's the same issue.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

I mean it sounds like you are sexy, not cute.

[apexalpha]

I think its the vibes you give off. If you are the person who start meaningful convos then you will. be perceived as relationship material if its one liners you are hook up meat

[Megalodon]

Every girl is fuckable, not every girl is dateable.