This happens all the time. 9 times out of 10 they wait until about an hour beforehand to cancel. This is usually when i'm getting ready and fixing to go pick them up within 20 minutes or so. This is something that has happened probably 20 times in the last year or so with all different girls. A friend even set me up with her friend and she cancelled. I wonder when she was planning to let me know, glad I texted her so now at least I can go do something else today.
I think I've been on like 12 dates total in my life and probably 30 dates have been cancellations that never happened. d
I just doesn't make sense that a girl would bug her friend for 6 months to meet me and then she bails and tries to reschedule. Ridiculous.
I consider it very rude when people do this. I have always tried to avoid doing this and have never done it and wouldn't unless it was an unavoidable emergency. Actually, my boyfriend and I were trying to set up one of our friends with a girl we knew, and she did the exact same thing to him. Her excuse was that she had a birthday party to go to. We had planned our double date a week in advance and she cancelled about an hour before because she would rather attend a birthday party. We were all infuriated at her.
Send them a message to ask why exactly they cancelled the date. Also add that you're just wondering this, because you'd like to know how women think etc. (so it won't make it personal etc etc). To be honest, I find it disrespectful/weird to cancel on last moment, you shouldn't want those women anyway, they most don't care about other people, so don't feel bad. However if she had something urgent, then it's a different story, but then she would have said that.
But ask them anyway! It gives you a lot of insight :) It doesn't hurt asking though, because they don't really want to go on a date anyway.
Are you meeting most of these girls online? A lot of people online flake for different reasons - they're nervous and changed their mind about meeting; they don't feel like meeting anymore, and don't feel an obligation to stick to the plan because of the anonymity factor; or they met someone else.
That sucks that this keeps happening to you. It's no fun when someone cancels plans, especially when he or she does it last minute without having a legitimate excuse.
well that's not very nice =/ I don't know why someone would wait till that late to cancel. that being said, not all girls are like this #generalisation491 there are girls who probably just don't consider that while she's realising she can't make it, you're in your home getting ready... u might wanna establish from when u guys set up the date, that if she can't make it, to give u a bit of an earlier notice. she should understand. sorry u had to go through that.
That's pretty disrespectful. My guess is that they were iffy about going on a date with you, they probably double booked with someone else and had you as a last resort and then went with the other guy instead.
Or they heArd a rumor about you at the last minute or found something out they didn't like. Or you said something they found distasteful right before.
2) Depends on the woman. There are many reasons. She might not have wanted to go out with you or something truly did come up. Maybe she was trying to get out of something that happened or maybe she was about to text you.