This happens all the time. 9 times out of 10 they wait until about an hour beforehand to cancel. This is usually when i'm getting ready and fixing to go pick them up within 20 minutes or so. This is something that has happened probably 20 times in the last year or so with all different girls. A friend even set me up with her friend and she cancelled. I wonder when she was planning to let me know, glad I texted her so now at least I can go do something else today.
Most Helpful Girl
I consider it very rude when people do this. I have always tried to avoid doing this and have never done it and wouldn't unless it was an unavoidable emergency. Actually, my boyfriend and I were trying to set up one of our friends with a girl we knew, and she did the exact same thing to him. Her excuse was that she had a birthday party to go to. We had planned our double date a week in advance and she cancelled about an hour before because she would rather attend a birthday party. We were all infuriated at her.0
Most Helpful Guy
Send them a message to ask why exactly they cancelled the date. Also add that you're just wondering this, because you'd like to know how women think etc. (so it won't make it personal etc etc).
To be honest, I find it disrespectful/weird to cancel on last moment, you shouldn't want those women anyway, they most don't care about other people, so don't feel bad. However if she had something urgent, then it's a different story, but then she would have said that.
But ask them anyway! It gives you a lot of insight :) It doesn't hurt asking though, because they don't really want to go on a date anyway.0