4 days after this date, she texted me wishing me a happy new year (Jan 3rd). I didn't expect to hear from her again so figured I'd try once more. From here on I've always been the one to initiate a text. She never asked me out after a week so finally I asked her. She agreed but said she was busy on the day I suggested. She suggested another day but I was busy. She then suggested sometime the following week. After this, that evening was the most dialogue we had had over text ever. It was 3 hours long and she thanked me before going to bed.
Monday of the following week she messaged me suggesting this Thursday and I agreed so we are going out a 3rd time - 3 weeks after our last date. She suggested something we could do but also said if I didn't want to it was ok we can do whatever I want. But I thought the idea was perfect.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm extremely nervous and don't know what to do. She seemed to have a good time on our dates, she responds to my texts, and showed initiative suggesting alternate days for us to meet. At the same time, she hardly ever initiates a conversation with me over text, she turned away from my kiss and our text conversations are usually short. I know she's a busy woman and I don't think she's all that shy but maybe she is and hides it well. I just feel not confident at all going in - I can't read her
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