I rejected this guy last year, long time ago, but I regret it a lot, since then I can't get him out of my head. The problem is, he has a girlfriend, I totally kept the distance, no messages or anything, but now I can't anymore. I'm not thinking about a relationship, clearly not, but I want to talk with him. We have some things to clarify. I wonder if I will look stupid or foolish to him. Or if I will bother his girlfriend... Any advice would be helpful. Thank you! :)
Thanks for your answers! But is a little chat that bad that would harm his relationship?
regret is a son of a bitch. its better to have tried and failed, then to have never tried at all. but yeah, out of respect for his girlfriend, i would just let it be. perhaps put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself would you like it if some girl approached him wanting to talk about what could have been or whatever.
If you rejected him, I'd say deal with it and move along. I will say that MOST girls want what they cannot have. I've seen this a lot, the girl reject him and he finds another one and she comes back. However , at the moment you told him you weren't interested, he lost his interest in you. I don't think you should talk to him again.
If I could talk to him, I would say "dude, do not give any chick who rejected/friendship zoned you a chance ever again, so listen to her out of comical curiosity but then get back to your girlfriend as she deserves you so much more" I say that because you can chat to him, but I hope he keeps a similar script in his head or else he may unfairly fall for you, which you don't deserve.
Do you KNOW 100% he has a girlfriend, cos someone saying he does is different, just so you dont talk to him, or one of his mates telling you so he doesn't get hurt again... If he does, well you had your chance.
Serves your right, just like a girl to fuck a bloke around like that. never wanted him when he was a single but now it is different now he is happy. Some women think that it is all about them and some women don't want certain men to be happy.
It was your choice dear, now let happen what will happen and accept the truth. You were important for that guy one year before but now it is someone else. Don't loose hope you will find someone better.
That's not cool. You know what cool is, carlito Caribbean cool
If you dont' actually want a relationship with him, stay out of his life.
If you realize you really want to be with him, and you're pretty sure, and he's not married or with kids, then go ahead and tell him, and either he dumps her for you or not. But don't go messing around and confusing him if you dont' actually want to be with him.