So he bailed on me again for the 4th F*****g time, guys. We were suppose to go on a sushi date then cancels 2 hours before because he thinks it would be better on a Sunday when it isn't after work and he has more energy. WTF. The last excuse he had when he canceled was that he had a killer headache and if we can go the next day instead. Um NO!
so anyways, I responded the next day instead (today) with a paragraph expressing how upset I was and even said the F word. yep.
he texted back "Ok. I am truly sorry for everything and upsetting you. I won't bother you again. I wish you all the best."
I wanted to delete him on FB but for some reason I still don't want to completely erase him in my life albeit the fact I said what I said. Reason? My guts is telling me he isn't really a bad guy (I have heard worse) just a one confused one who isn't ready for whatever reason.
What do you guys think?
Most Helpful Guy
He is a twat move on and forget him. He's up himself and thinks that jerking you around is fun. You can do far better than him...1
Most Helpful Girl
He may not be a bad guy, but he sure seems like an unreliable one.
Unreliable people can't be depended upon , and that would be a
deal-breaker for me. I like to know where i stand with a guy , so if he was unreliable i would pull away.
To be honest , i couldn't even be just friends with a person who was unreliable , but that's just me
If someone lets me down once , i assume they are busy, twice unreliable but three times is taking the piss. I wouldn't have given him a chance to let me down a fourth time.
Personally, i believe if a guy genuinely wants to spend time with you then he will make an effort.. not an excuse.1