So he bailed on me again for the 4th F*****g time, guys. We were suppose to go on a sushi date then cancels 2 hours before because he thinks it would be better on a Sunday when it isn't after work and he has more energy. WTF. The last excuse he had when he canceled was that he had a killer headache and if we can go the next day instead. Um NO!
so anyways, I responded the next day instead (today) with a paragraph expressing how upset I was and even said the F word. yep.
he texted back "Ok. I am truly sorry for everything and upsetting you. I won't bother you again. I wish you all the best." I wanted to delete him on FB but for some reason I still don't want to completely erase him in my life albeit the fact I said what I said. Reason? My guts is telling me he isn't really a bad guy (I have heard worse) just a one confused one who isn't ready for whatever reason.
He is clearly not all that interested, and you are someone that he is looking at as a person to see when he is bored. He may not be an asshole, or a bad guy, but he isn't all that into you. Those are the kinds of excuses a guy uses when he just wants to go home and play video games instead. Or have a buddy come over for a couple of beers or something. And if those kinds of excuses happen multiple times, it really shows that he isn't feeling it. The fact that he is just "ok. Sorry. Have a good life" when you basically told him off tells you that he doesn't care enough to fight for you. You are someone that helps alleviate boredom, but not someone in his long term plans.
It will be much, much better for you to move on and find a guy that's more into you. You'll want to delete him from social media and stuff so your mind is clear to move on, otherwise it'll be harder to get over him, and you'll be really susceptible to him fishing you a couple of months down the road.
Find someone that wants to spend time with you. People will get busy, sure, but this guy simply doesn't care enough to prioritize you. Others will. Find them. You'll be much better off long term.
Don't delete him... Maybe you could apologize for swearing :o
I wouldn't have sent an angry response... I would have thought it, but wouldn't really send it. I would have just stayed silent and quiet until the Effort comes from Him. If he really wants to go on the date, he'll contact me to confirm the day on when to go