I am not trying to be bratty, or conceited in anyway, but I am getting tired of only attracting the guys that I don't find attractive and they all try to make a move on me. I get messaged by unattractive guys a lot, and they try to ask me out or tell me I'm gorgeous and that they want me to be theirs.
And I know, that looks aren't that important, but you should be attracted to the person you are w/. And I actually know a huge majority of the guys who have messaged me and they are all weird. I get annoyed with it, because I am not one who likes attention, also I can't seem to attract the guys that I like and it puts me down because it makes me feel like there is something wrong with me, since I am attracting the opposite of what I actually want.
In fact, my standards aren't even that high I will date a guy, if he is just "decent" looking he doesn't have to be super hot in order for me to like him I do care about how smart they are, and their personality of course. I just don't understand why I can't attract guys that I like, it seems like no attractive or at least decent guy likes me.
(that's me in the picture by the way I'm 15, sorry that my age says 18-24, I can't fix it:/)
media.giphy.com/media/a5viI92PAF89q/giphy.gif Listen fam: In future, don't use the world ugly when describing someone. unattractive is acceptable because it implies that you simply don't find that person attractive.
It's simple really, just respectfully decline the offers of someone you don't find attractive. Don't tell them they're ugly. Just think of a convincing reason why you wish not to date them. ( Should you even be dating at this age? )
Instead of being a sitting duck, go and ask out people you like instead for a change. See how difficult it is and how painful rejection can be ( especially if the person you like thinks you're "ugly", to use your words )
Well, i have to be honest here, you are one smoking hot 15 yo, esp in that pic ( no pedo, i just meant that some girls look kinda childish/cute at 15 while others look more mature/hot) So im not surprised if you have some high standards. But just so you know, many of the weird Nd ugly guys now, might become total hotties in their twenties. Not always but it does happen a lot. Some men really do age like wine. Sooo, it might be better not to completely ignore them:-D
You know what you want the next step is getting yourself out there. Make your presence known instead of just simply waiting for the right guy to appear. If you know that looks aren't everything in a relationship its safe to infer that you know nobody is perfect. I believe your problem is that you haven't felt chemistry with the guys you're meeting with! :)
Listen girly i don't meant to be rude or mean or anything but you're also average and ( Birds of a feather flock together) that's what they say in my country
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Clearly you are not attractive as you think you are, if you were attractive guys would be interested in you. You actually come off as pretty shallow and that could show in your personality and make you less attractive. Also women in general have a more unrealistic idea of attraction, with most considering more men are unattractive than not.
ugly people seem to be less ashamed of going for attractive ones way out of their league. there´s no loss in trying xD and no shame in them getting rejected.
i never date someone i would not be attracted to. i could not kiss someone i am not attracted to lol. even if looks is not everything. if someone is a good person. that is god. but how to kiss someone you dont find attractive and you dont want to lol. i asked my guy friends about this they all agree they also want a good person but you dont kiss someone you dont find attracted to. its ok we can't help what we feel and we can't force that. doesn't make you a bad person. both looks and personallity its important but everyone hasdiffrent types and nothing bad about that. but i would never say to someone they are ugly. becuse everyone is someones type. i tried date guys i did not like they were kind but i could not kiss them. my advice it to people dont do that you hurt yourself and the other person. becuse you to come out as a good person but you not honest to yourself.
I don't believe in you, i think you're just some guy or girl with a fake account and nothing better to make in your life so you create characters to pretend on internet.
Even if that's true, which is likely, there is always a possibility that this is real and that you just hurt her feelings. I'd advise you to keep the accusations to yourself, even if he/she is catfishing.
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