I am not trying to be bratty, or conceited in anyway, but I am getting tired of only attracting the guys that I don't find attractive and they all try to make a move on me. I get messaged by unattractive guys a lot, and they try to ask me out or tell me I'm gorgeous and that they want me to be theirs.
And I know, that looks aren't that important, but you should be attracted to the person you are w/. And I actually know a huge majority of the guys who have messaged me and they are all weird. I get annoyed with it, because I am not one who likes attention, also I can't seem to attract the guys that I like and it puts me down because it makes me feel like there is something wrong with me, since I am attracting the opposite of what I actually want.
In fact, my standards aren't even that high I will date a guy, if he is just "decent" looking he doesn't have to be super hot in order for me to like him I do care about how smart they are, and their personality of course. I just don't understand why I can't attract guys that I like, it seems like no attractive or at least decent guy likes me.
(that's me in the picture by the way I'm 15, sorry that my age says 18-24, I can't fix it:/)
Why does this happen what do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
In future, don't use the world ugly when describing someone. unattractive is acceptable because it implies that you simply don't find that person attractive.
It's simple really, just respectfully decline the offers of someone you don't find attractive. Don't tell them they're ugly. Just think of a convincing reason why you wish not to date them.
( Should you even be dating at this age? )
Instead of being a sitting duck, go and ask out people you like instead for a change. See how difficult it is and how painful rejection can be ( especially if the person you like thinks you're "ugly", to use your words )2
Most Helpful Girl
You typically attract what you are.1