first off i dont care much about facebook, i'm talking about the principle.
we're been on and off for 2 years exactly, and now for the past 4 months we're been serious and things are going great. i met her parents, she met my whole family, we always go out together with friends, EVERYBODY knows we're dating.
we have pictures together and only sends them to her all her best friends friends privately and to her parents, her cousins and her aunt... but then if she thinks im gonna post them on facebook or something she's like "no i look bad there, that picture is blurry, that picture is awkward."
we even took a picture at her graduation ceremony and i uploaded it to facebook, and she took it off her timeline because she said "i look weird there but i also think thats not a good first picture of us."
but the thing is, she is very active on facebook, and gets tagged in new pictures with her friends almost every day, and has snapchat selfies with her friends and her (gay) guy friend.
again, she doesn't hide me at all everyone sees that were clearly dating we're always together with her friends, but like for some reason it seems like she doesn't want me to be seen on her facebook and i don't get why.
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This should not be the defining issue of your relationship, but it's not a silly worry either. Social media can be superficial, ridiculous, and just plain stupid sometimes, but it's part of our identity now, it's part of how we present ourselves publicly, and it does matter especially if it's hurting your feelings.
I'm not saying there's nothing going on here. If you've been dating for a year and she's posting pictures of everyone but you, that does seem odd. I will recommend you to try talking to her first.
Tell her how you feel and ask her why it makes her uncomfortable to share pictures of you online.
Wishing you the best of luck.2
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