Part of me thinks that it may just be the guys you are dating. The fact that he even asks if you want to be fuck buddies is just sad (cause you obviously don't seem to just want that, And i think its absurd too to just want sex with someone. Those people only deserve to go jerk off at home in the corner) You probably are "girlfriend material" I dont see why you wouldn't be. I'm assuming you are pretty and also have a nice mind (funny, honest, respectful, mature etc any of those good characteristics). Just find a guy that wants a relationship and not just Fukin sex and then you will be some guys girlfriend!!! Yaaaaaa 😝 Best of luck friend 😎
I'm sorry that he only wanted a friends with benefits thing with you. It's good that you declined though. Some people think that after the sex, he will change his mind eventually. You made the right choice.
I think it might just take time. You are someone's idea of the perfect girlfriend material :)
Jeez... well to me he sounds like an asshat, I don't know if I'd ever have the balls to suggest just being sex buddies. Dick move.
The biggest difference between being girlfriend material vs sex buddy? it's out of your hands regardless of what you do its up to the other party and what they want. Be yourself. Don't change just to get a relationship. Someone will want to date you because your you. I know that sounds like cliche bullshit but it's the truth, and that relationship will be genuine.
Don't worry. Some of us are neither boyfriend material or fuck buddy material. Some of us will be lone fucks, life is a interesting thing with variety of twists. One's personality can pretty much define if they are girlfriend or fb material.
His lack of commitment or not being sure if his feelings towards you He wand to be friends and he wants to fuck you That means he finds you attractive and likes you as s person, but is afraid of leaving the freedom of being single
I love how everything is always the man's fault. Fuck this society...
Without knowing you, I can't say. Maybe you're picking the wrong guys (based on your age, this is likely. You're still riding thugs, criminals, jocks, etc), maybe there's something about you that guys just don't want to give ANY kind of commitment to. I don't know.
What do YOU think might be causing guys to consider you to not be girlfriend material?
Feminists have basically ruined it for you. You're basically going to be a megaslut jumping from cock to cock until you are alone, or you're going to waste years dating people who you don't really like and only want to fuck you until you lower your standards.
Shit deal huh?
This guy just likes a different kind of personality then yours. Everyone likes different personalities. I don't know you, him or the situation but it's not until multiple guys told you this, you should not worry about it. Some people like strawberry ice cream and some like chocolate ice cream.
I want to say it's the guys and not you but I've been dealing with something similar in the last 2 years. Nobody thinks I'm girlfriend material so maybe some us aren't, the same as some guys aren't boyfriend material.
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. And you did the right thing by not accepting.
I think sadly that more and more men are seeing if they can get away with it, because so many of them do it, that girls eventually get tired of trying to find a decent man and give in.
That is probably just what he does after date 3 with all girls.
I feel like most guys I meet do not want to put into the effort to date me and I do not have casual sex so it's annoying when guys i like are not willing to give me the girlfriend title but only want sex because if a girl they liked did the same thing to them they would whine and claim they were friend zoned
I just move on and cut guys off who only ask for sex