I am 21 and a guy has never asked for my phone number. I know plenty of other women who are asked for their number from guys... but not me. I even feel like I take good care of myself. I am 5'6 and weigh 125 pounds. I look in the mirror and personally, I think I look attractive (however, I feel like I am pretty under some lighting and I feel like I look ugly under some lighting). Men older than me will only call me beautiful and other women sometimes will tell me that I am pretty/beautiful/cute as well. I have been called good-looking once. This all does not happen on a daily basis though. Usually when I receive such compliments, I feel disbelief.
Women have asked if I have had a boyfriend before. When I say no, they ask me 'why'. I really do not know why I do not have a boyfriend because I feel like I am approachable. People often say that I am a nice girl and I do smile (although, I have my moments).
I don't go to bars and clubs. On top of that, I am not interested in online dating. The only thing I notice from men (besides from older men calling me beautiful) is that once in a blue moon, I may notice a guy staring/looking at me. Other than that, men barely hit on me. I have never had a guy come up to me to start a conversation and ask for my phone number. And as a result, I feel like it has been blow on my self-esteem because there are some women who get hit on left and right and they have no problem being in relationships. I feel like if I were really an attractive girl, guys would be all over me and they are not. I am starting to believe that I will never meet someone special.
Most Helpful Guy
It's probably your looks. You're either not attractive or average. Also, you're demeanor likely isn't doing you any favours.
Most Helpful Girl
Dont feel bad u are young!! im 45 and im currently inm the same boat as you1