When I am seeing a guy, I never know when he stops texting me if he is just not interested anymore or just testing my interest to see if I will text him first.
I went out with a guy two times last week and it was awesome. He said we would see each other this week, since I mentioned I was going out of town for the weekend. He texted me wishing me a good trip on the first day I was away, but now it's already Thursday and I still haven't heard from him, and I got back on Monday. If he's not interested anymore I don't wanna bug him, but if he's just testing me I would have no problem in taking initiative to text him and ask him out. Should I wait longer or just text him?
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Yes, even though i don't text her or text her first, that doesn't mean i don't like her. I'll still think of her even though she might think i don't just because i don't text first. The reason why we don't text first because sometimes we are scared that 1st: she might not be interested in me. 2nd: We might come off as creepy if we text her first and this might actually scares her off. 3rd: we tend to think that when we text a girl first, the girl might know that we actually likes her and we don't want it to be that way. You shouldn't wait any longer for his text. I would love a girl to text me first to shows that she is interested before moving on to text her first in other days to come. Try initiate like "Hey, I'm back! How are you doing" or maybe "Hey, it's been awhile since we chat." and i'm sure he will like it.0