I make that bitch suffer muhaha. All kiding aside, I kind of do. Few guys actually get the "game" and how to make a girl's attraction for you grow. Believe it or not, doing this is very beneficial to the girl, it helps her attraction grow faster. When I first start dating a girl this is my go too: First date, text her when I get home telling her I had a good time. Then I'll text her about 2 days before I want to plan for the next date so I usually text after 4-7 days. I keep this up until she starts texting me first (all the ones that are actually interested do), once she starts consistently initiating convos I'll text her first every now and then (like for every 4 times she texts me first I'll initiate once). Works great because it drives the girls nuts and makes them constantly think about you and if she's thinking about you it's a good thing, especially if she starts getting frustrated and annoyed. I just try and keep texting to a bare minimum, I mostly use it to just plan dates.
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You have to consider the "honey moon phase" where the texts are instant.. but after that.. it dies down.
even if a guy is interested in a girl... his life doesn't revolve around her... he will text when he Has The Time to text her... and thats just the way it is.
Its early / he may just be someone who doesn't go on his phone that much. Had the same problem with my current boyfriend he would go 24hours without texting and i thought he wasn't interested but he explained he just isn't a phone person... however when we started a relationship i asked that he'd at least text me every evening so i know he's alive 😂
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The same for anyone. If I'm interested in them (for a relationship or not) I ask questions try to engage them in conversations and what not. If I'm not interested then I don't bother. Or will give curt replies.
When interested I'll make the conversation last and it would be a lot deeper. When not interested, its just to get information forward.
Everybody is different if I'm interested I probably seem a little to eager text lol it's instant unless I feel really bad about it like it's annoying
Fuuu well if im interested i try to listen to everything they say, if im not ill respond with short answers that are meaningless
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