How do you come about kissing a shy guy?

[Anonymous]

Hes never been kissed and neither have i... (we both like each other) How do I send the message "kiss me"? or how can I kiss him? I don't want to freak him out...

[burn27]

Trust me, he has already thought about it if you two have spent time together one on one and just did not know how to act on those thoughts without scaring you. Next time you are both sitting next to each other, say watching a movie and it would not take much movement. Just lean over and kiss him, he will love it and kiss you back! If that is too much for you, just lean in and give him a peck on the cheek and he will go in for the real deal! Haha, if he is shy, he has not kissed you because he either does not know how to do it smoothly or is waiting for an ok sign, so he does not get smacked, lol. If you make the first move and get it out of the way, he will become more confident and you will both get what you want (a kiss). Go for it!

I use to be so shy around girls I liked it was not even funny, especially back in high school. I was on the baseball and soccer team, so I was competitive and confident in myself. Just not when it came to girls. I actually did not experience my first kiss until after high school, as terrible as that may sound, lol. So please do you and this guy a huge favor and kiss him. If you make the first move, he will roll with it. Just do it...

Good luck! = )

[PredictablePen]

u said yurself that you like each other. that should at least make you feel more comfortable about the idea of kissing him. if he won't move in for it, at least try to show that you want him to. if you want to jump in and do it yurself, just move in slow. don't scare the poor guy. if he likes u, he won't just straight up shove you away

[2Mysterious]

You both liking each other is a plus. Just take it slow so he doesn't feel pressured. If you're having a deep and meaningful conversation move a bit closer forward and look into his eyes. Hopefully he will read your signals and it will happen. You'll probably make his day haha

[klyde1120]

I used to be a pretty shy guy very long time ago.

What you can do is approach him slowly face to face, talk with him make him feel comfortable, get him to have confidence in you then after that has been accomplished move in for a soft kiss on the lips if you se him answer back then you made it if not just give him some time to warm up on the idea that you like him that way he will eventually return to answer back.