I am 22, my best friend Kyle is 24 and his sister Emily is 19.
Kyle and I have been best friends for about the past 5-6 years and while I've always thought his sister was cute, I didn't do anything about it...cause he is my best friend. I've always known she has found me attractive not only from the way she looked at me, but because Kyle would even joke around about it.
Anyway, about 2 months ago Kyle and Emily came to visit me (I live by myself in an apartment) so we could hang out, drink, etc. I ended up making out with Emily and we both discussed how we really felt this connection. Kyle was off grabbing some other friends at the time that's why he wasn't there.
Anyway, Emily and I have kept in contact. We have gone on dates, held hands, kissed, and had sex several times. Sex with her is the best sex I have ever had. We discussed what we should do and we realized we had to tell Kyle. I told him on two separate occasions that I was hanging out with his sister and that I like her. He didn't seem to care at all. He is not the overprotective type, but he didn't seem to care even a little.
So Emily and I still hang out. I'm a bit wary of what her parents are going to think. I know they really like me, but I haven't told them and neither has Emily or Kyle.
I'm not even sure about this whole situation. Emily and I really like each other. It's not just some random hookup. We get along really well and we have a great connection. It's just obviously different cause this is my best friend's sister.
Furthermore, Emily has been telling me recently that I am "hard to read" which I am assuming is code for "I'm not sure where I stand with you" or "Are we going to be boyfriend and girlfriend yet?"
Help? What should I do?
What can I do about their parents?
Most Helpful Guy
If you're serious about wanting a relationship with her then:
1) Ask Kyle if he's cool with you dating his sister
2) Tell her you want a relationship with her
Don't worry about the parents, they will be happy if you're boyfriend/girlfriend and you treat her right.1