so, we go out last Thursday night and I basically tried to have the exclusive talk... unfortunately it went completely awful due to the fact that we were drinking a bit... I think me more than him. I definitely came off as needy, insecure etc... I basically made it about sex and not about the relationship. the night ended on an okay note, but by the next morning he was not happy with me..we texted a little bit but he was very curt. I texted him a couple of times over the weekend and heard very little. I could tell from the tone of the text that he was not happy. I asked him if he wanted to talk and he just kept ignoring me.
Finally on Sunday I sent him a nice text that he finally replied to.. here is what I wrote..
"I'm trying to give you space to think about things.. I just wanted to let you know that I miss you and am sorry for upsetting you. "
he wrote: It's not that I am upset..i just think we are at different places in the relationship. I like you a lot and enjoy going out, but it seems like you want more than that..
I replied " I completely respect your feelings . I like you a lot also so hopefully we can figure this out. "
Did he break up with me? I know I need to discuss this at some point but I'm not sure where he stands. it is so not obvious to me and it seems like he isn't even sure. I am just not going to contact him right now. is there a certain point I should contact him or just let it lie and see what happens?
HELP! I clearly don't get men...
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