My best friend is 17 almost 18 and she's never had her first kiss. She is freaking out that its totally not normal and keeps asking me what's wrong with her. She is absolutely gorgeous and has a ton of guy friends. I don't really know what to say since I had my first kiss at age 11. Is it weird? What do I tell her?
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Just tell her that there's no "normal" time to get one's first kiss. It'll happen when it'll happen. And it depends on whether she wants to get a kiss just for the sake of it, or she wants to find a boyfriend that will love her and eventually get to give her her first kiss, in which case the reasoning is still valid. Tell her there is nothing wrong with her, and she needs to look at it differently: because she has not kissed yet, her first kiss needs to be given to a very deserving guy(Wow, I'm surprised I'm actually writing this!). Also, if she's shy, just tell her to relax around guys. Help her understand she needs not make it such a big deal of getting in a relationship; the simpler you conceive, the sooner it happens3