Sometimes people get back together..I'm just wondering how the dumper goes about this process. eg: do they think about the dumpee a lot before hand?, do they ignore them while they are thinking about their old relationship?, is there a rebound in between? are their signs?
And are there signs the dumper is never going to reconcile?
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Well, I got dumped 9 weeks ago by a girl who said I was her "forever" and that we'd marry. I mean she didn't even sit down and break up with me, or even call, she just sent a text and it was over just like that. She never looked back either. Hasn't called, texted, emailed, nothing. I went from being her everything to her nothing overnight. I've heard she's moved on, has dated other guys and I am sure she's sleeping around or has slept with a handful of guys or so. I guess I am in the same position as you. I am always wondering if I'm ever thought of, missed, or if she will ever try and contact me again ever. She has a lot of growing up to do. I myself haven't been able to date, or sleep with anyone because the pain of being without her was just too much. Now fortunately I am feeling much better and am over her emotionally. I am not 100% mentally there yet, but it will come soon hopefully. All signs point to her never coming back and honestly I think I might be better off for her leaving me.2