Just wondering... there is this Russian girl in my university, and we hanged out once and it went pretty well. I flirt with her on fb occasionally. The only thing is that I recently noticed she is really rich. Like she is usually very well dressed, shops at high end stores, I saw that her family owns a Masserati and a really nice crib. I am really not a materialistic type of guy and although I am well off, not really loaded like to be able to shop at the stores she seems into. What is your opinion, she seems to be really into the expensive stuff, does a guy like me have a shot?
Most Helpful Guy
I just got done being involved with a rich girl as well ($6.8 M home, time-share private jet, family crest-adorned clothing worn for holidays). Take what I say with a grain of salt because I'm still pretty pissed at how it all went down (much of it for reasons other than the money). She told me all the stuff I listed (among other ways showing her wealth) in daily conversation, without me asking her to tell me any of it. In doing so, she made me feel almost poor, which, I'm not by a long shot. It really started making me insecure, especially when she started talking about how her rich guy friends would buy her all these shots, how her ex was also really rich, and other crap like that. Basically, if it seemed I couldn't provide for her in college how the hell would I in the real world when I'm not going into a high-revenue job?
Honestly, I would say watch out for how she ACTS instead of what possessions she has. If she's humble or even sorta embarrassed about her wealth, its probably safe to go for it. But if she flaunts it, you should probably run like hell. So, while I personally won't be going out with any rich girls for a while, its not necessarily a sh*tty situation for you. Hope that helped some and sorry for the long answer :/.1