So let me explain I've been dating this guy for a month now...and a week ago I dumped him cause I felt like he wasn't communicating enough all of a sudden, it was like he was calling me everyday and then it stopped. Then he had came back to me saying his phone had broke and that's why he hadn't called, so we ended up starting to see each other again. But now its a week later and I feel like I'm back in the same cycle.
So this week he always calls me, like every other day...and then he called me day before yesterday and asked me out for this weekend...So then after we got off the phone friday night I sent a little flirty sexy text msg & he didn't respond..Then I sent one yesterday morning just saying "hey what you up to?" and he never responded. Then I sent one couple hours ago tonight asking the same thing...And he didn't respond again.
Am I looking too much into this? Why do guys respond to some texts for a while and then stop for a day or two or something? Plus I saw him on myspace already today haha so I know if you have time to be on myspace, you should have time to respond back to a text msg. Is he doing this on purpose? Is a guy tired of you if they don't respond to some texts?
Most Helpful Girl
I have been in the same situation and it is nothing to worry about. You are overanalyzing something which is not a problem. Guys do not like to communicate or open up as much as girls and they don't feel the need to. If he does not respond it does not mean anything and does not mean that he likes you any less. He could just be busy, not near his phone, tired or not in the mood for talking and he will get back to you when he is ready/when he has time.
If he did not want to be with you then he would not be and if he did not want to talk to you then he would not reply to the messages eventually. A lot of people like to communicate with their partners everyday even tho there is no need and there is no need to worry if you don't communicate everyday.
Just cut back on the communication and see how it goes from there. Just call or message him once a day max and if he does not reply just leave it and don't mention it. He will get back to you when he can. There is no need to communicate more than once a day.2