For roughly 5 months last year I had a personal trainer. We got along extremely well, talking about everything. He left the gym in August, and although I did send a letter wishing him well, etc., I never did hear from him.
His birthday is coming up.. I know he had a rough year, and I was thinking of just texting him a simple 'happy birthday'..
If he responds back, great.. if not, that's fine too.. I would just hope it makes him happy that someone remembered..
Kind or Creepy?.. what would you think if you got that text message?.. especially if you haven't heard some someone in a while...
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I suspect your motive is more than just the urge to say hello, but that does not matter at all. Around one birthday is often a time of introspection and looking back. I am sure he would be very pleased to get a nice note from you wishing him a happy birthday. I suggest you add in some detail to give him an easy excuse to contact you back, for instance a remark like it would so nice to see you again and your phone number.
Definitely send him a note. It will only take a moment of your time and it may mean a very great deal to him. You don't often get the opportunity to make such a great impact on someone's life with so little effort on your part. :)1