Yeah I've been in this situation. It's beyond sh*t and I totally get the confusion.
Girls and guys cuddle and flirt with other people when they aren't happy in their own relationship and the attention she is getting from you with the cuddling and flirting is a nice little ego boost and a comfort.
You have to be careful here because by the sounds of it she is just using you for the ego boost and doesn't have any feeling otherwise she would've broken up with her boyfriend to pursue you.
What she is doing is borderline cheating but she won't cross that line. If you are familiar with the term 'on the hook' you will get it. She likes doing this for the attention but it won't turn into anything real. Sorry if this is blunt but I've been through something similar and it really f***ed with my head. My advice would be to just tell it to her straight. If you are into her and want something to happen then say that and if she isn't then move on.. plenty of girls out there.
Some girls are more flirty than they should be because they don't realize how much it impacts you.
For girls, they like to cuddle with their guy-friends, with their girl friends, with their dogs and cats and their teddy bears, and the blanket on the sofa, and with their mother and sister. Girls are touchy feely...and they are going to cuddle with their guy friends.
So if it is very hard for you than maybe you want to tell her that you are not comfortable with it.
Or if you like it don't say anything to her and let her cuddle with you.
She's a ho. Ur trying to justify her not being a ho because why? She hasn't kissed you yet? She hasn't blown you yet? Or tried to f*** you yet? Honestly she's a f***ing tease...she has a man, you know she has a man but she's flirting with you and your trying to make out with her.
U should just skip all of the games...Whip out your d*** and let her get to work..bc she's a FAAAR cry from being a decent girlfriend.
It sounds to me that she's prickteasing you. What you have to do is TELL her. (in my experience it's hard to get a straightforward answer from a woman when you ask a simple question). Advise her that you don't like being led up the garden path. You could throw this to her "Imagine if you went to a famine infested country. Whilst there you meet some starving people and you communicate to them in such way that you'll offer them food, and they are LED to believe it.. You do return there with food and then have the audacity to say it's for someone else. Do you consider that behavior to be good?" Then make her know how dangerous her behavior is. If she want a relationship you then she should act differently. If she doesn't then say no and lead people on.
I'm in a similar situation with a girl who has done more than just cuddle. In fact, I've actually kissed her many times, but not lately. She still lets me do all kinds of sexual things with her though.(apart from actual sex). I don't really think her boyfriend would be all that impressed if he found out.
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She sounds flirtatious and loves the attention.Perhaps she is having some issues with her boyfriend so being with you at least make her feel good and better.Its not a good attitude obviously,but some girls just behave in such way.Its actually can lead to cheating if both of you encourage it more.
LOL@ the girl below who said she is a hoe.Hoe is defined as a women who has sex for money.How funny other girls insult one another to feel good about themselves.
I just love how some of the stupid girls on here can't handle when their opinions are challenged and they feel the need to block someone. Yeah I'm talking bout you anonymous "best answer" user. At least I have the guts to use my real profile on here and don't cower behind my anonymity. Get a freakin life
She's not a good girl, she's a ho and that's why she be up on you like that. If she was a good girl she wouldn't be putting herself into compromising situations w guys other then her boyfriend. You're not any better either if you're asking her to kiss ya and cuddlin w her and stuff. You two deserve each other:)
She's not a whore, not, just a two timng little minx. There's a difference, but not such a big difference.
That means she loves all the attention and is getting you hooked and her so she can use you later.
She's probably going through a rough patch with her bf... Or is just a two timing bitch. Ask her.
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