There this girl, she has a boyfriend. but when we hung out (past few times) she has been cuddling with me, laying her head on my chest and playing with my hair. Little stuff like that. But I was texting the next day and asked why she won't kiss me, she said she would feel horrible because she has a boyfriend. she's a good girl, not a hoe at all. So I'm confused why she would be up on me like that. Help please?
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Yeah I've been in this situation. It's beyond sh*t and I totally get the confusion.
Girls and guys cuddle and flirt with other people when they aren't happy in their own relationship and the attention she is getting from you with the cuddling and flirting is a nice little ego boost and a comfort.
You have to be careful here because by the sounds of it she is just using you for the ego boost and doesn't have any feeling otherwise she would've broken up with her boyfriend to pursue you.
What she is doing is borderline cheating but she won't cross that line. If you are familiar with the term 'on the hook' you will get it. She likes doing this for the attention but it won't turn into anything real. Sorry if this is blunt but I've been through something similar and it really f***ed with my head. My advice would be to just tell it to her straight. If you are into her and want something to happen then say that and if she isn't then move on.. plenty of girls out there.6