he is eather a drunk or figured one beer wouldn't hurt if he wanted to be more relaxed during the date and than went for another beer and another... etc (first sign of addiction)
he's probably a nice guy when not drunk. I know now after almost done wrighting this that the question is 3 months old that it's probably too late for advice but you should let him have a 2nd date and tell him no beer and if you like who he is not drunk consider going out with him but someone who shows up drunk for a first date got problems.
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ok I don't like that and I say its a red flag because if he really liked you he would just be himself and not stupid enough to drink and try to talk you..but on the other hand he could be really nervous and drinking calms him down.. I remember I thought of doing that once but never did cause its just not a smart idea...first date is usualy first impression
i went on a date drunk loads a times before to calm my nerves and give me confidence ha it worked but I don't do that anymore it ended not too good one time
but id say that's why the guy was drunk too calm nerves most likely
dump the hell out of him.if he can't rescpect you on the first date then after you are together he wouldn't care less.we dnt care that he says his sorry dump him and never look back.dnt even think about him
Forgive, but move on. If he can't treat you with respect on the first date...who knows what he's like after that.
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While I'm sure some people would note his sloppy approach, I think perhaps he's an incredibly shy person. I once had a friend who would get high every time he had a date. His reasoning was that he was "more sociable". He probably thought being drunk and "funny" would be better than being boring and less talkative. Assure him. Let him know that you've already liked him and he doesn't need to be so worried.
give him a second chance if you think he didn't mean it to happen. otherwise id think long and hand b4 trusting him with a date again. in ur age group, they should be mature enough to keep a promise if they cant... you know what kind of guy he is
good job make a life lesson engraving in his head lol..every time you remember him you thnk of drunk him
id give him ONE more chance, it might be a red flag, but give him the benefit of the doubt this one time
When guys show up drunk on the first date it means they really really like you
If he did it once, especially the first time, what's to stop him from doing it again? It just goes to show the kind of person he is.
i love ur update.good for you girl
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