I met him from a dating site, we've been seeing each other about 2 mos.. and sexually active.
altho we are not in a relationship, we're acting like a couple, even he's been lately acting like he's getting more attatched to me..
he'd send me pics of his daily life, texting me few times a day, he even got me a random gift after his business trip(and it was real business trip lol), he started to calling me my hon, told me his dark pasts, so I thought he's more open to me and we getting closer.
but I just figured he just updated his dating profile, he updated few pictures, and on his profile, he says he's looking for friends..or more. and says to reply him back when he sends a wink.
I'm very devastated now because we are sexually active..and I thought he started to like me more... we talked about the site before and he told me it's not a big deal that I shouldn't worry about it.
Is this a red flag? should I just leave?
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You should leave.
I have been on dating sites and even tho I was talking serious to a few of them only one seemed to be serious enough to pursue it. So I told the others after making that decision that I am very sorry I was on this site to find someone thought it could have been you but this other one is someone I would like to pursue.
Just so you get this clear. A real man would never sleep with you and have any need to update his profile if he was serious and wanted this to work out.
he is a serial dater !0