I am very confused. He says helikesme... but henever communicateswith mewhen we're away. I have ablast when I am with him... we can talk for hours!... but he never calls or texts me. In fact, when we make plans we txt... we don't even call. Sometimes he replies to my texts... other times not.
I have already asked him and he says he doesn't really like to text. I feel so needy and I don't want to come off as that needy girl... but when you're dating someone I'm kinda used to the cute wake up "goodmorning beautiful" texts... and the how are you? and someone who actually replies!
Does he just not like me that much? I swear, when we're together it seems like he does!
We both work and so we see each other like once a week. We don't talk in between. I don't like that... idk, feels like we're not really dating? idk? I guess I'm used to guys I date txting me all the time wanting my attention... OK not all the time, but at least once a day!
What should I do?
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I think you should recognize that this is a great, independent guy who's willing to wait to see you in person to bring out the best qualities in the both of you.
If you sat around all day texting, what would you have to talk about on your next date?
This is a blessing in disguise. If you really need that one text per day minimum quota filled, you can tell him that it's important for you to hear from your significant other in between dates... but it's best to let that evolve naturally rather than trying to force it. Otherwise, you might trap him into sending an obligatory daily text like some kind of RSS feed.
Just bite your tongue for now, and if things haven't changed to your liking after a month or two, you can start dropping hints. Always reward good behavior with copious amounts of sex.0
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