This is what my guy says when ever I get off the phone with him. For instance, we were on the phone last night and are planning to do something this Saturday and he ended the call with "I'll call you tomorrow...or the next day..." Why can't he give me a definitive date? He does eventually call, but I just think it's weird that he does this. Also, when ever I stay over or vice versa, the next morning, he always says "I'll call you later"...and I hear from him usually a day or two later...is this normal? I don't mind...it's not like I wait around for his call...I do have a life...just curious I suppose.
I'll call you tomorrow....or the next day....
What Guys Said 2
that sounds normal to me. Some people have different levels of clingy-ness. Guys especially don't want to play social games...they want to be there talking to you in person rather than over the phone/text. He may also want you to not think he is being smothering.
You can try calling him more often and see if he does the same. It is possible as with any scenario that he's not really that into you...only you could say...
But respect that he could just be acting like a guy and/or trying not to smother you. The further your relationship progresses, he should be trying to spend more time with you in person though.1
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For the most part it sounds pretty normal. The only thing I think is a little odd is that he's saying to you a head of time "...or the next day". Reason I say this is because he either has something going on the next day or he doesn't. Now if he doesn't, obviously something could come up and he could end up being busy. On the other hand by him saying tomorrow or the next day, he may in fact being telling you this to be polite and keep you from wondering why he didn't call if he told you he was going to call for sure the next day. BUT in my opinion, NO ONE is soooo busy, that they can't take 5 minutes out to call and ask or see how your day has been or is going. Period. Have you asked or talked to him about it?1
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