Ladies what are some of the excuses you make with a guy that you have to bail on a date whether is be you don't like the guy that way or you literately have a good excuses because something came up
Side note : Why do girls agree to a date, give a guy his number flake and flake on him?
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Usually girls flake a lot at the start if a) they aren't that interested. or b) they are interested its just they are busy with their life and/ or have lots of options so it is going to be hard catching up with them for a while because they have friends to catch up with in their spare time/ other guys/ so at the moment because she doesn't know you well yet you are not a priority/ so you are going to get cancelled on quite a bit. Not because she doesn't value you or she is selfish its just honestly she is too preoccupied, its almost like you need to win her over because she is not desperate in the least bit, and others will be persuing her, so if you dont, you won't stand a chance. if a girl is flakey, determine if she is worth the chase, because chances are, that is what you will have to do!
In terms of excuses, well it depends how much I like the guy. If I actually want him to still think highly of me and want to catch up with him again, I actually usually think of some pretty seriously low conscious excuses. Like If it was a last minute cancel I might say something like omg so sorry to cancel but my dog needs to go to the vet omg I'm so upset I just can't talk now ill have to see you another time so sorry =(. So not only am I cancelling but I am now making him feel bad for me for cancelling making him feel sorry for me because I am so upset.
Or If I know the guy is only available after 8pm for example and we are meant to meet then I might say ah so sorry can't do later tonight but I can catch up earlier at like 5/6 for a couple hours if you want..but I think you said you were busy, shame I really wanted to see you...and I can't do later..ugh this sucks!0