Me and my friends were having a debate about this. I feel that if you are friends with the guy, and he has been your friend for a long time, that it shouldn't matter if you text him first or if he does. Like my guy friends always initiate with me first, but then I have some guy friends, who haven't been texting me, so I text them first to see how they are, and my girlfriends have that attitude like "The guy should always text first" I believe that to some degree, but if you are just friends with them then why does it matter?
So guys does it matter if you are friends with girl and they text you first? Does it still come off as needy? I would only think that applies to dating, but my girlfriends keep on saying "No matter what you should NEVER text a guy first" so your thoughts? Do you agree? Or disagree? Thank you!
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It never matters who texts first. Societal norms may influence how we choose to believe this scenario 'should' be, but it doesn't matter if the guy or girl texts first, whatever the context.0