I'm fairly new to this site, only just stumbled upon it late last night. From all the Q&A's I've read - so far - it seems like many (white) women are just not attracted to Indian guys. The reason this is important is because I am currently enrolled in a university in Texas where the majority of women are white. I've been here almost three years and honestly I've had NO LUCK! Not even a date. Personally, I am quite, introverted, "keep to myself and don't bother anyone" type of guy. But recently school has become really stressful and I've just become depressed & lonely. I feel so unwanted. I could really just use a girlfriend, or even a female confidant.. someone to help take the edge off. Is there anything I can do to maybe separate myself from this stigma that seems to be surrounding Indian males? Maybe even catch the eye of a few girls? Just need any advice.
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The way these girls will go out with you is when you show value.
I'm sure out of ALL of the white girls there, there has to be ONE that is into Indian guys.
The thing is you need to also approach women. Sure you might get rejected a lot, but how else do you expect to meet a girl if you don't get yourself out there.
Where I live, Indian guys and White girls is VERY common.
I see these couples all the time, funny enough my best friend is Indian and he married a white girl. They are super happy together and they just had their 1st kid a few months ago.
Don't let color get in the way and change your attitude. Girls like confident guys, so you gotta be aggressive when chasing girls.1