I've been dating this guy over a month now and we both make references to Facebook so I know he's active on it. Is it weird that he hasn't added me? I met him online, we have no mutual friends so it makes me think he may have a reason for not adding me yet. Guys- do you usually have something to hide when you don't add girls to fb? And no, I am not adding him first bc so far he seems like the initiator type so I am hesitant in case the reasons above are true that he actually doesn't want to add me yet.
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Adding someone on Facebook exposes all your friends and family to that person. I don't do it first with a girl, because honestly I couldn't care less about Facebook. But if she friend requests me, I'll only add her if I think there is real potential there.
Oh, and if I'm the initiator all the time, I lose interest eventually. If you're a proactive person you like people around you to be proactive also from time to time, not just sheep that obey you.0