Well first off don't be mad. This happens to most guys your boyfriend is not unusual. I know a lot of girls think men are pigs and that's why it happens. In this case that's not the reason at all. Its actualy very sweet why this happens.This is why guys fall for there girl (friends). Ok your friend who is a girl normaly you like her because she's easy to talk to, has a sence of humor, can help you with your problems,seems more human then other girls, shares a lot of her problems with you,and you care for each others happyness and well being. The girl who you fall for as a girlfriend is easy to talk to, has a great sence of humor, you think she may be able to help you just by being there,you want to help her with any problem she has. And you care for her well being and happyness. The only difference is she doesn't seem human she seems to perfect, and you are physicaly attracted to her and a little more emotionaly attracted. But all those qualities the girl your friends with has especialy her trying to help you when your down makes you fall for her. You say to yourself what a sweet person. So you see its quite natural for a guy to fall for his girlfriend. Try to get him another girl he might like. But never gwet annoyed by it cause its a complement to how good of a friend you are. It may not be that way with how girls view guys. But trust me as a guy he is saying your such agood friend I can't help but fall for you. If you rescue a little kitten and its starts to love you and rub up against your leg. Do you say what's wrong with you I only gave you shelter and food to keep you from dying. Why are you trying to love me. Its natural for the kitten to rub against your leg and curl up on you in a ball while your sleeping. Its natural for guys to do the same.
Let him know how uncomfortable this is making you. If he's a good friend, he'll look elsewhere.
P.S.: If you find him a girl, she could distract him for you.
Well are you sure that it is only friendship with him you want? Because I have been there and I sure am glad that my boyfriend never stop asking me out because we would of never found out that he and I was soul mates and we are very much in love now. So what will it hurt if you go out with him and see where it goes from there you might be surprised.
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don't be mad
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