Would you be mad if a friend ditched you to hook up with a guy?

[Anonymous]

A friend and I had sort of talked about going to a bar and having a few drinks last night. So I texted her last night and she said she decided to stay in instead. Well, today I find out that she stayed in to hook up with a guy I didn't even know she was interested in. Would you be mad? I don't know how to feel about it.

[CatherineTheSoSo]

Sistahs before mistahs! Or something like that.

In all honesty it is one night. I'd be annoyed but amused - getting laid is much more interesting/entertaining than drinks since there will always be time for drinks. Aside from that it's not cool of her to flake out but, well, I'm a bit of a flake too so I can't judge.

[CheeLii]

I wouldn't be that angry about it, unless it was an event planned out weeks ago. It's better that she replied back rather than a "no call/no show" deal.

I think I'd be pissed if I went to the bar with her and she ended up leaving me to hook up with a some guy.

[dalila]

i don't think I will ever have a friend like that but as it wasn't a big plan just drinks I wouldn't mind, but if was a birthday or something I would feel annoyed...she is probably into the guy

[kaviraaj]

i won't get mad

its purely her personal matter

it depends on your relation how strong it is

its not necessary that every matter should be disclosed to you

[Asker]

No, but it kind of seems sh*tty for her to ditch me like that.

[kaviraaj]

its up to her

don't get deep into her

i think she does not have enough faith in you

so let her leave her way

[misterbill71]

This happened to me this weekend. I got upset; not because she ditched me, but because she lied to me instead of just telling me she had a date.