My best friend (guy) is hanging out with my ex girlfriend, should I be angry?

[cfriesen]

My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me two months ago, since then we have kissed a few times and she tells me there is hope for the futre to date again. Lately my best friend has been hanging out with her aloe, should I confront him with how I feel. Should I just be moving on, I really really love this girl and thought that we were going to get married.

[introspective]

I would talk to your friend and ask him what's up and that you just want the truth so that you can choose to move on if there is something going on with them. If they like each other you cannot help that and neither can they I suppose, so you may have to accept that. Plus it sounds to me she does not know what she wants and she is stringing you on because she knows she has you wrapped, which is not fair to you. I would tell her and it is going to be hard that no there is no hope in the future to date again. If she cares about you, you will see her do an about face. If she does not come back to you, then she never was going to and you can move on and heal. No one wants to hear that when they love someone, but you have to do it.

[ally03]

first of all, don't let her do this to you, it's not fair to you and you're just going to end up getting hurt she decides that she does not want to be with you in the future or she meets someone else. straight up tell her that she's either with you now or it's never going to happen, and leave it at that, believe me, she will want to be with you and if she doesn't than it was never going to happen anyways. I don't understand why people let people they love walk all over them, grow some thicker skin. and tell your best friend to stop hanging out with her alone, just tell him it bothers you.you have the right. also tell her to get her own friends.

[Reeses-pieces777]

She just wants to know if you still have feelings for her. I would be mad. One of my friends did that, hung out at my ex's house alone, went to all his parties, etc and they both denied anything happened before I even asked them! so she's not my friend anymore lol. I don't talk to her obviously because she kept hanging around my ex boyfriend and everyone knows how she's like. ;)

[xstaticzerox]

First off I understand how you feel with your Ex keeping you hanging on because mine is doing the same to me trust me it will become tiring for you. As far as the Best Friend thing I am sorry if this goes against what others are saying but. If they are a true friend to you they would not be hanging around her! I don't mean they have to be rude to her but friends care about your feelings and well being and your Friend should know whether you are together or not that she means something to you and has hurt you.

[Simple-Simonette]

Does your best friend know she's leading you on?

I think that it is the time to talk to him. He probably has no clue what is going on between you and your ex. Unfortunately, SHE is aware and to me indicates that it is time for you to move on.