GUYS---What can a girl do to "unfriend zone" you.

[Anonymous]

So I think I accidently put this guy in the friend zone...and I def. want to be more than friends. But he's being very distant now(he used to text me all the time, now he never does. And he short answers me if he replies to mine). But in person he goes out of his way to talk to me. I'm confused. Its a really really long story that I don't want to explain. But yeah, back to the question..how can I "unfriend zone him" lol

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To clarify...he never was in my friend zone. I've liked him from the start!

[BCRanger10]

He thinks he is in your friend zone. If you want to bait him along, you have to try flirting with him for a while first. If he does not respond to that, or if he is just plain clueless, you should just ask him out yourself.

Out of curiousity, how did he end up getting friend-zoned?

[Quadrophonic84]

If he gave you all that attention before and it didn't work, he probably got the idea you weren't interested. Maybe it didn't since now you seem to be interested now that he's not giving you the attention anymore

[Asker]

It did work..we were talking all the time. He knows I like him. I basically told him that I'm not going to mess around with him because he's not my boyfriend and I'm not the kind of girl to just mess around with anyone. And because of how he is..and some other cirumstances...that him and I both know that he prob. won't be my bf.

[Quadrophonic84]

Then you're not what he's really looking for but he'll keep you around in case you change your mind.

[Asker]

But I know he likes me. It's obvious. I think he's just not sure what to do because I know I put him in the friend zone..without meaning to do it.

[Anonymous]

He's gotten over you. It's what you do when you get rejected or friend zoned. You accept it, deal with it and move on.

You cannot unfriend zone him, if he's lost feelings he once had for you then they are gone end of story. Accept it learn from it and don't do friend zone again.

[JeffreyJian]

U should explain to him that you actually like him. I regretted being the nice guy to this girl and encouraged her to like my best friend. And even though she has broke up with him now, she still treats me as her best friend. Her brother that she can always share her problems with and I can or will help her with it.

[Dragondude42]

If he's in your "friend zone" but now you like him, doesn't that make him un- "friendzone'd"? I'm confused as to the question :s

[Asker]

Nonoooo. He was never in my friend zone. I think I made him think he was though. So I'm pretty sure he's conviced he's friend zoned now...but he isn't! LOL I am also confused! jezzee=( haha

[Dragondude42]

So you want to let him know that he isn't friend zoned. Just flirt with him, spend time with him, compliment him. stuff like that.

[kheserthorpe]

We can't answer without knowing what happened because the signal you give now will need to be MUCH stronger then the negative signal he picked up.

[Anonymous]

Offer yourself, no shame, just offer