My boyfriend keeps pressuring me to kiss him

[Anonymous]

So I've been going out with him for only a week. We kissed once because he and his friends were pressuring me to. Now he won't stop asking to be kissed. And I don't want to. I felt disgusted during that first kiss and now I'm scared that if I give into his pressuring that he'll end up wanting more, which I really don't want to have to go through. What should I do?

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I wanted our first kiss to be special, not sitting in a pizza place with all his friends - and even him - staring me down and pressuring me to kiss him. After I kissed him I felt disgusted with myself that I had given into their pressuring.

[naturaldisaster]

awww, you shouldve said you were in a pizza place little lady! I think a first kiss should be in private, his room or yours. So I understand you, next time just slap his face for acting like a show off in front of his friends. It's okay though, its just a kiss. Next time when you're ready, kiss him. and next time when he pressures you, walk away. I usually walk away when someone tells me to do something I don't like to do..

[naturaldisaster]

Is this your first boyfriend? You sound like he is the first guy you've dated.

If you don't feel comfortable kissing him or you feel like he is pressuring you, tell him exactly what you told us. I'm sure he will understand you.

[Thiezz]

I would leave out the part where she feels disgusted...

[naturaldisaster]

mmmm yeah you're right, leave that part out!

[Thiezz]

> and now I'm scared that if I give into his pressuring that he'll end up wanting more

If he's a teenage guy I can pretty much guarantee that he already wants more, and wanted more since before he kissed you :p

What is it about the kissing you don't like? Why does it disgust you?

[Anonymous]

He isn't your boyfriend , congrats - you are single !

[Opinion Owner]

A true gentleman won't pressurize his girlfriend for kissing - he is a loser and you deserve a better guy .

[Asker]

Actually, yeah, that's how it ended up working out. It's definitely for the best.

[Opinion Owner]

Thx for the best answer ... Don't worry the world is full of guys and you are single ... so you'll get a better one .

[Anonymous]

you don't want to kiss your bf? then why is he your bf?