This could be exactly like Anonymous said. Though it could also be like he's ashamed of you, or himself, or maybe he's married or dating other girls too. Maybe he's only one foot and one foot out of the door. Like maybe he's making it easy to leave at any time. Maybe he's afraid you will leave. Maybe he doesn't want anyone to screw with whatever his angle is. Maybe it's some other form of double life.
Whatever the case, it's a red flag. It means he's resisting. It means he's not taking things seriously. It means he's detached in some way. All of these are VERY bad signs, no matter how stable things seem to be, because this means that he can just dump you and run out at any point with little mess or cleanup. Do not treat this like it's nothing. Sit him down, talk to him about it, tell him you want to meet his friends and family. Stress how serious this is. Tell him you're not going to let this go anymore.
I really hope things work out for you.
Good luck.
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That's a red flag, in my opinion.
I couldn't imagine that after 3 years of dating, the girl wouldn't have met every single one of my friends at least once.
I wouldn't just let this slide, if I were you. There has to be some sort of reasoning behind it.
Perhaps he has no friends, and doesn't want you to realize how unsocial he used to be.
Perhaps you're not as important to him as you think you are.
Perhaps his friends know things about him, which he doesn't want you to know.
Honestly, there's lots of reasons a guy could try and shield you from his mates, but none of them are good.
No you shouldn't be worried, he doesn't have any friends apart from his imaginary ones... Wait maybe you should be worried after all.
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This is extremely odd behavior. If he likes you enough to be with you for 3 years one would think he'd be eager to show you off to his friends, not keep you away from them. Does he give any explanations?
yeah its weird behavior , so just tell him that unless he lets you become a part of his life then you might as well go your own ways, because that's exactly what he is doing, so disrespectful,x
So, did it work out for u? Have u met his friends? I m having a similar problem here and i would appreciate it if i can hear your opinion :)
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