You have to realize that in life you don't always have a clutch to lean on.
Sometimes, you have to be there for yourself and be your own best friend.
You have to be able to stand on your own two feet, and walk on your own.
All in the end, that experience will only make you stronger and that much more
ready to be an adult (because you will be able to stand more independently).
Life isn't all about how much friends you have, or how much
people you can speak with.
Sure, it feels good to have them.
But if you don't...then carry on.
Try to ultimately think why you are in school.
To get an education and to become someone in life,
not to be liked by everyone around you.
it's okay... just focus on your classes, hang out with the friends you do have...and if you don't feel comfortable- it's okay. you can survive without friends. it seems like such a huge deal...but it really isn't. sometimes I think the most important lesson people need to learn is how to be on their own. you can do it! :)
It depends on what you did, if you fought all your friends away, sent a nude pic, or slept with someone you shouldn't have, it will go away. Just stay open and outgoing. Admit your mistake and joke about it. It will be embarrassing at first but it will get rid of unspoken tension. I knew a guy who sent a pic of himself to his crush. She sent it to the whole school and he was ridiculed and alienated for close to a year. Then he opened up to people and joked about it. Those who made fun of him couldn't anymore and it cleared the air with everyone else. I don't know what you did though, so that may not work.
it's not really a big deal. I'm graduating from high school in 2 months or so, and for the last few years, I would sit by myself in class, eat by myself, pretty much do everything by myself. And I'm doing fine. just focus on your studies and all your worries should go away.
but if it is really bothering you that much, then just sit next to someone in class, make an attempt to talk to them (about school, holidays, whatever), and when lunch starts, continue talking to them while going to the lunch area, and just sit with them. It should be fine.
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If nobody wants to talk to you, that's alright. Just find something you like. Have some music to listen to for instance. There are people around who don't care about what you've done and will be friends with you just because you're you. It may be difficult at first, but you'll get through it, no doubt. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to hit me up whenever you need. Even if it's just a random chat. :)
Friends are overrated in college - especially in college. Seriously, most of them only want to horsing around or partying and will distract you from obtaining a degree.
Try to find those who don't seem to have friends either (sitting alone during lunch or in class) and befriend with them.
I wish I was as cool as you when I was a senior in high school. I made bad choices but I wouldn't admit it .
sit with the weird thirsty losers they will accept you and ull at least be sitting with SOMEONE...
i rarely had any friends in high school, I was a loner, don't stress or anything about it and focus on school.
Just don't stress too much on it. Just be yourself, be confident and don't be too self conscious. Just take chill pill.
become independent.
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