Disclaimer: Although this post is for everyone, it has religious content so if you're afraid that the mention of God will hurt your sensitive butt then skip to the third part. :)
Everyone is Beautiful
Everyone is beautiful and so are you. God has created you that way and you're one in seven billion people in the world. You have nothing to change about yourself, no flaws to hide. Life on earth is temporary. God will not send you to heaven or hell by seeing your face. That time, your only companion will be your deeds and your intention behind them. Everyone is sent with certain good and bad things, it's a way of God testing you, to see if you get spoiled with your beauty and lead yourself to going astray, or if you're not good-looking, to see if you accept the way you're created and count your other blessings and appreciate His mercy. Your prayers will count, not the number of guys who crushed on you.
Appreciate your flaws
Once you get to heaven, everything's positive, beautiful, prefect and orderly. The opposite for hell. Your life on earth is the only chance to enjoy both good things and bad things at a time. Look around you, how amazingly balanced good and bad things are. You, with your flaws and perfections are a small unit of this harmonious blend only unique to the universe.
Be proud of being unique
Just think how bland and boring this world would be of we were all the same. Imagine everyone looking polished and photoshopped. You would never be able to enjoy it despite having so many beautiful people around if there was nothing ugly, no diversity. You appreciate food because you feel hungry. But you wouldn't enjoy it if all food tasted the same. You'd only eat for the sake of eating.
Beauty is kinda same. We appreciate it because people of different levels of attractiveness exist, and beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors.
And if you still don't have the most killer looks, it's ok. Not everyone is physically attractive, and not everyone is intelligent, not everyone is creative, I could go on. But everyone is valuable, everyone has equal rights. It's just the beauty and fashion industry growing. Don't stress. Don't be sad when that boy rather approaches to the cute girl in class instead of you.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
It's up to you what you'll find beautiful. If you're into girls with beautiful eyes, you'd most probably like me. If thin hair is your huge turnoff then you'll run away from me. My ex said I would look better if I was pale, my boyfriend not only admires but is envious of my brown skin.
Apart from that we all appreciate good health and good behavior in common. Clear skin, symmetrical face, healthy weight, we all love them and we also love a pure smile from anyone. :)
Believe in yourself
You ARE beautiful, your are amazing, and you deserve to look your very best. Before you do anything, love yourself first, unconditionally. Trust me, everything else will follow.
You know what's beautiful? Your uniqueness. :) You know what's sexy? Being healthy. You know what's appealing? A neat look. You know what's desirable? A sweet heart. You know what pays off? Hard work. You know what's appreciable? Your skills and talents. You know what's respected? Wisdom. You know what's fierce? Confidence. 🔥
Look your best, feel your best, be your best
Only because you have a crooked nose or some kind of hormonal imbalance that forbids you from being normal weight, doesn't mean that you cannot look beautiful. You are, and you deserve to care for yourself to look your best. Don't listen to those who say you can't be beautiful. You did not decide what features you'll have when you were in womb. So don't be ashamed, don't let fashion magazines belittle you. Those people are being paid to look good, it's their job, they're obligated to look like that, you're not. Even supermodels have a normal life being the scene. That picture is alerted with poses, lighting, makeup, editing and what not. Even models have to have a well-maintained life and a high level of professionalism.
Healthy is sexy. Eat well, sleep well, be hydrated, be clean, do some exercise or at least stay active. You don't have to live a bland and tough life to be healthy. You can still enjoy junk food in small portions. If you don't wanna workout then just turn on some music and do hula-hooping for just ten minutes. It will relieve stress and excess belly fat, plus you'll feel like a child again! Do whatever you want make sure you enjoy it.
Being fit can be a struggle for those with hormonal problems, but don't use that as an excuse to be sedentary. There are more benefits to working out than just being fit. If you feel very fatigued all the time, try having more iron and protein.
Groom yourself. Clean yourself and your clothes. Trim your nails and hair regularly. Keep the sweat in control. Doing your brows and shaving are optional stuff but go ahead and do them if you want. Put on a great perfume. Smelling great increases a person's attractiveness. Spend some time in front of the mirror everyday, you'll love yourself. Skincare doesn't cost an arm and a leg if you know what you need. There are various sources on the internet to help you with it.
If you don't know where to start with to look better, I suggest skin, hair and brows. I personally looked shit on days I skipped my beauty routine, and I look bomb when I take care of myself. And I know same goes for everyone. Give it a try.
Invest in a good closet. You don't have to be a fashion freak, just wear what suits you. Make sure it fits. To see if the color of a clothing looks good in you, put it over your head like a headscarf and see how your complexion looks against the clothing in natural light. And yes this is for boys too. Or just hold it against your wrist if you feel awkward. Get some good shoes.
It is also necessary to get good and comfy undergarments. Studies prove that wearing good-looking undergarments can boost your confidence. For girls carry a tight t-shirt when you go to buy a bra to see how each type of bra looks on your figure in the trial room. You'll thank me later even if you're a modest dresser. Have a good fit, wearing poorly fitted bra inscreases the risk of breast cancer.
Accessorize. As much as you wish. They help to make your outfit seem well put-together. Makeup is optional, practice some techniques that compliment your face and eye shape and make sure it's well-suited for the occasion. Believe me, I've noticed that even the most unattractive people look stunning when they dress-up and accesorize well.
Pray and meditate. These will help you be calm and feel better, relieve stress. You don't have to be theist to meditate. Prayers and meditation also helps to increase blood flow to the body and face, giving you a radiant look. Releasing stress makes you look more youthful. And so many more uncountable benefits. And again, God won't take you to heaven seeing your face!
Be kind. Engage in humanitarian activities. Even they will relieve stress and help you to become a better person. This can also lead to long-term happiness and you'll appreciate yourself and your life so much. Let your inner beauty glow! Being kind to people will also make people like you, so be mannered, humble and empathetic. Even the most beautiful girl will not be desirable if she isn't nice.
Have knowledge and work hard. Read books. Improve your skills. Try something new. Persuade your life goals and career.
Look at the attractive people. Yeah they get things a tad bit easier, but they have to work hard too. The world doesn't revolve around them like many of us think. No level of attractiveness will give job to an uneducated person. Instead show the world that you can be successful even after not being attractive. Take inspiration from people, I personally admire Jack Ma.
Be confident! You ought to be confident if you take care of yourself. If you really want to be desirable, be humorous. We all love funny people regardless of their appearance.
In the end, work for the well-being of you and others. Give without expecting to get back. Love yourself and others and everyone will love you too. People who don't care about looks exist, like me. ;) People understand that looks matter less as they grow up. Someone out there will love you for who you are, it doesn't have to be right now. Just be your beautiful and unique self and move on. Cheers.
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