So my question is: what is going through a girls mind if she happens to catch a guy checkin her out, whether in class, the mall or in any sitiaution? Say he's lookin at you for maybe 10 seconds or so just dazing out then you shoot him a quick look, then he quickly darts his eyes away as to not get caught. Is she most likely offended, creeped out, cool with it, insulted, complimented?
like if he's checking me out, kinda depends on who it is: if he's a jerk then I will think : ugh, pig!
if he's really nice: then I would probably be thinking he might be interested and maybe he thinks I'm cute
if its some random guy at the mall and we are the same age or close to... usually I'm in a good mood when I'm shopping so I'd probably work it and take it as a compliment!
If he's dazed out I won't be sure of what it means and I will ponder it, unless he's look straight at me and its kinda like...does he like me or something? but I would need a couple more stares to confirm it completely
well for me, it depends who it is. I've caught some of my friends totally staring at me but I didn't care because I know them. So I guess, if I either know the guy or think he's cute, I don't mind. Sometimes it actually makes me feel good because that makes me feel like he finds me attractive.
But if its an older guy in say his 30's or 40's, its really creepy and kind of scary lol
i generally laugh or stare back as blatantly as he was staring at me, if he warrants it, and if he doesn't I just kind of smile and raise my eyebrows. it usually makes me feel attractive and I go on with my day.
but if it gets a little awkward...i've been known to make faces, pretend to pick my nose obnoxiously, etc.
OFFENDED, CREEPED OUT AND INSULTED! COME ONE GUYS CAN YOU NOT JUST TAKE A LOOK AND LET IT GO!
I HAVE NOT PROBLEM WITH A GUY CHECKING ME OUT BUT I HATE IT WHEN THEY STARE.5 SECONDS TOPS SHOULD BE THE ADMIRRING LIMIT.ANYTHING LONGER THAN THAT IS NOT EXCEPTABLE.IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE SOO MUCH THAN COME TALK YO ME.THAN YOU CAN BE CLOSER TO YOUR PRIZE.
It freaked me out a bit when I was younger. I've grown used to it now. I work with a lot of guys, and take a crowded train to get there, so I get checked out a lot. It doesn't really matter to me. I suppose it'll bug me when I get old and don't get checked out anymore, but for now I kind of take it for granted.
if you don't actually talk to her eventually then its considered stalking,
girls, guys will stare at you because we find you attractive and or we want to be friends etc.. so don't take it as creepy (unless of course he's gonna stalk you)
as far as what theyre probably thinking (man if I knew what a woman was thinking I wouldn't be asking so many questions) I think theyre thinking that "hey, this guy thinks I look good, I hope he comes over and talks to me" I mean afterall that's what you want, right?, correct me if I'm wrong.
the thing is if you want to stare at a girl, you may as well let them catch you, otherwise she won't know if you find her attractive or if you're just being a stalker. I mean the whole point is to let them know you find them attractive, so then just let them. past couple days I've seen this girl I'm trying to become friends with, I've looked at, and she's caught me, only to say hi and wave, which is obviously a good sign. that's what you need to get at.