I guess it is and it isn't... it really depends on the girl - everyone is different.
I mean some will go for the looks, but then it may not last if there's no real connection
But then a girl may not neccessarily be attracted to the guy's looks, but it's the personality that really wins her over, then he may end appealing more attractive than the other?
Every girl is different, just like every guy so there's not really any definite answer to the question, cos different girls go for different things, there's so many people in this world, we must all have someone destined for us each, Surfer Dude! :-)
Very true. Us girls (most of them) don't look for the physically attractive guy as much as we do personality. Girls want a guy to care of them, love them, listen to them, BE THERE FOR THEM. A hot guy with zero personality is not going to help her out very much. She needs someone that she can relate to. Not just the physical. In fact, many girls feel a guy become more attractive as she gets to know him. Even if others think he just darn right ugly.
It's not so black and white. Hypothetically, girls will claim the guy with no looks will be better off. But in reality, I think both guys will have trouble getting girls. However, if say there were a decently attractive guy with a great personality, and a very attractive guy with no personality, the decently attractive guy with more personality will win. It's extremely important to us. To say looks hold no weight though is simply not true, for anyone. We're all programmed like that. But it IS true that women place more importance on personality.
For me yes, I can't be with a guy that is only cute, I spend a lot of time with my boyfriend and if he had a bad personality then it wouldn't work, I think that girls that want a guy soley for his looks is either to show off or just for sex etc. but that's just my opinion :)
I think it really depends on the girl but I know I could never go out with a hot guy with no personality. Hot guys are nice to look at but if a guy can't contribute anything to the relationship other than his looks it's not gonna work out. I mean looks are not everything, but they do account for at least half of my attraction to a guy, and the other half is a good personality, sense of humor, etc. A guys looks are usually the first thing that attracts me to him, but in order for things to progress there needs to be more going on than just physical attraction.
I'm not interested in a hot guy w no personality -especially if he's not smart. There is a chance I may date a guy with a great personality who's not hot. But honesty, it depends on how not hot. I need to be attracted to someone I'm dating.
No. A man without personality will not be troubled by a woman, therefore, he would have it easier. Don't take that the wrong way. There is no need for careless men in a good woman's life. So be good and take the pains of it. You will be better off long-term.
I would not be with a guy with no personality, there's no future with someone like that