When a guy says he's not looking for a girlfriend what does that mean??

So I have been talking to this guy for little over a month now and I really like him and he says he really likes me. So last night I asked him what is he looking for and he told me that he's not looking for a girlfriend. He calls our relationship a "grownup relationship". I don't know if he's scared to get hurt again or just isn't interested in going on into a full blown relationship with me. Any takes on the situation?


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  • Take it slow. Maybe he wants a relationship he just doesn't want to admit it, or not yet. Maybe he's testing the waters a little before he jumps right in.