So I have been talking to this guy for little over a month now and I really like him and he says he really likes me. So last night I asked him what is he looking for and he told me that he's not looking for a girlfriend. He calls our relationship a "grownup relationship". I don't know if he's scared to get hurt again or just isn't interested in going on into a full blown relationship with me. Any takes on the situation?
Sound to me like he isn't really interested in you for anything more then a common hook up. This "grownup relationship" is so phony. I don't even know what that means. I think if it means anything though it means he wants to be friends.
Being a grownup means saying what you want without any dumb lines and committing to someone if you want to. Sorry, but he sounds like a little bit of a jerk and he's probably not really that into you, lucky you!