If a guy says “I’m very single but I’m not sure if I want a girlfriend right now”?

[Guccigabbana18]

If a man says “I’m single but not sure if I’m looking for a girlfriend”, what does that mean? Might he be a bit of a player?

This is not a guy I’m dating, or wanting to date, I’m just wondering in general. Does it suggest player vibes?

[Biancam13]

It usually means he’s either wanting to flirt/sleep around at the moment, or he hasn’t found anyone that makes him want to have a girlfriend so far. Or maybe he just got out of a relationship and wants to be single

[Guccigabbana18]

Thanks you! He didn’t say it to me, he said it to my friend and he meant in general. I was just wondering if that’s code for : I’m a player lol

[Anonymous]

I don't think that makes him a player at all. A player would pretend they want a relationship just to lead someone on. I think a guy who says this is being honest about not wanting a relationship, and if a girl pushes it, he may hook up with her but that still doesn't mean he'll be ready for a relationship.

If a guy says this, take it at face value.

[PastorJohn69]

Take his word for it. Either he us a player or he is smart enough to know that he is not emotionally ready for one.
Anybody who gets into one and was emotionally stable enough, 99.4 % of the time, it ends, ... badly.
See the red flags
Don't ignore

[FilmGuy93]

I don't think it's quite fair to assume that he's a player, based on that comment. I'm the same way as him; single as a pringle, but not interested in dating. I am absolutely not a player.

[Guccigabbana18]

I get that, thanks. So how do you tell if they’re a player or just like you then? Is there a way to tell?

[FilmGuy93]

I'd say that the easiest way to tell is by how you see him chase you/other women. I don't chase women.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He's not ready to date a woman at this time he rather remain single for the time being

[Flower7]

It usually means he’s not interested in that particular girl.

[Guccigabbana18]

What if he says it to a platonic friend or a group of people?

[OnTheLevel]

It means he's single but not ready to dedicate the time and effort required to maintain a relationship.

[Wonderwhat]

He want's, but he does not want to come off as clingy. Just keep pushing for it.

[Johnagain]

Not always player vibes. Maybe he's just like me; sick of the game.
Hate the game, not the player. (I'm not a player, by the way.)

[bowenw]

Player or not really into you.

[Guccigabbana18]

Thanks. It’s not a guy I’m interested in, just a guy said that to my friend in general

[bowenw]

He may like her, but not more than a friend, or like you say he could be a player.

[RuthlessAggression]

It just means he doesn't want to be with someone right now.

[In_Trance]

It means he's not sure he want "you" as a girlfriend

[The_Naughty_Guy]

It means he’s just looking for one night stands

[browndog]

Either a player or friends with benefits.

[Andres77]

Yes, yes it does

[QuietRunner]

he wants sex