Guy says goodbye to everyone but you?

[Anonymous]

There's a guy who has a crush on me and I have a crush on him. However he has a girlfriend. When everyone hangs out without the girlfriend around, he will say goodbye to me. But if his girlfriend pops up, he will say goodbye to everyone but me. This makes me feel bad. The girlfriend also changed her pfp when I changed my pfp when she heard him compliment me on my pfp. She changed her pfp to look similar to me. It's pretty creepy. He's also been told by her that he can't laugh or smile at me. He says I have to respect his boundaries but this is too much. I don't know what I'm supposed to respect if I'm interacting with him around people. We are never alone and never doing anything inappropriate.

[CaptainOverthink]

Attraction to others outside of ones relationship happen all the time, it's his main responsability to maintain his boundries.
And while I understand his girlfriend wanting him to be exclusively disinterested in you I think it would be more healthy if everyone could just accept that feelings and notions can exist without them going anywhere. It's about trust.
But we don't live in such a world where people are THAT mature, it's a tall order and a high standart of restraint and compartmentalisation.

And from a mans perspective I think it is obvious that if someone is partnered up then it's disrespectful to even think there is a chance (just proves you prioritizing your feelings about someone over their best interests, aka, you're in love with the feeling).
Though I do see this a lot from women (because I have a mans persoective), that they can be with someone while reaching for another and when there's mutual attraction, expect men to pursue them even though it's widely known they have a boyfriend. Then get mad or sad when the man won't.

Obviously men also sometimes wear their emotions this way and close in on people they shouldn't. Probably just as often, I just don't see it. But I experience this from women and I just picture myself being that boyfriend, being treated like a placeholder.. ughh. Lose attraction.

[Finchie40]

His girlfriend probably feels threatened and jealous of you , she probably senses that he likes you and she doesn't want him getting close to you , she is insecure , she is probably thinking he will try to do something with you , like hook up and flirt and cheat on her with you etc. This sort of thing happens in a lot of relationships , why having opposite sex friends can damage a relationship , without really realizing it is. So out of respect for his relationship with his girlfriend , he doesn’t say bye to you when she is around , because he probably doesn’t want to start any conflict or drama with his girlfriend. She probably said rude comments before about you. to him , when they get into the car to leave or when they are by themselves she probably said things like , You have the hots for her , You want to fuck her , I see the way she looks at you and I see the way you look at her etc. Sadly , his girlfriend is insecure and having a hard time trusting him , probably because she was cheated on before , by an ex boyfriend or some shit or he did something to her that is making her feel this way , Usually people that been cheated on before , have a hard time trusting their partners around the opposite sex. So the best thing for you to do is , just stay out of it , and distance yourself from the both of them , You don’t have to be enemies , just don’t invest any of your time into him , because it can easily backfire and make you look like this horrible person , it can make it seem like that you are trying to steal her boyfriend. My advice to you is to move on and invest your time into someone else unless you want to steal him from his girlfriend, that is up to you.

[Hazelxoxx]

He have girlfriend so move on. He is type player if he have crush on u while he have girlfriend ,, so move on. Find someone is single

[spartan55]

I just understand why women do this. He has a girlfriend, END OF STORY. You knew this for a while and kept cruising through fantasy land... smh🙄

[spartan55]

*don't understand

[exitseven]

This is what happens when guys with female friends suddenly get girlfriends that a re jealous or insecure.

[Anonymous]

Is there a question here? Isn't it obvious that he won't say anything to you with his girlfriend around because she already knows he likes you, and vice-versa? If your age range is correct in your profile, you're acting like a bunch of children and you need to grow up and act like adults.

[ThrillSeeker01]

His girlfriend is jealous of you and he probably knows it.

[Fuentes]

Stop being a home wrecker find another guy to like

[Anonymous]

If he’s with her then you should both be keeping your distance. He should not have to be told by her how to act.

[Cute_potato01]

He told her about you.. maybe he think u like him

[Anonymous]

Maybe he just forgot?