When do you know is time to stop pursuing a girl?

[LittlePrincess94]

Some girls like to be chased. I don't feel cool being the chaser, but there are some girls that I like really bad and I don't want to give up on them.

How do I know if a girl just wants me to keep pushing a little more or the girl just wants me to give up already?

[TimB -1-2-3]

When she's calling the police, it's time to stop ;p

But I'm skeptical about the idea that girls "like" to be chased.

I mean, sure, they'll like to be chase because they'll feel powerful, like they have the person right in the palm of their hand, but whether they'll "like" it in a romantic and sexual partner-way? I really don't know... I certainly haven't heard it from ANY girl I've known...

I mean... Everytime girls are being chased they just tell me that they find it "scary" or "weird", "pushy" or "needy", and they don't think that's cool, mate... I mean... sometimes even call them "creepy stalker-guy"... Imagine that!

A better thing you could do is to make HER want YOU so much, SHE'LL CHASE YOU...

Anyhow, this is not really answering your REAL question, isn't it?

So... How do you know whether a girl wants you to stop or not? If she seems GENUINELY disinterested, which you can notice through her answers (are they short? not detailed?), her bodylanguage (does she signal that she wants to go away, if she's looking at other things), and her tone of voice (with no energy at all, just dull), then STOP.

If she is flirting with you or is genuinely INTERESTED in you, on the other hand, then continue and go out with her already!

I hope you've learnt something of value through this post, even though it's so general (some details would've been nice)...

Good luck, anyways, and have a great day! ^^

[LittlePrincess94]

You can't force girls to like you that's for sure,

My pont is that many times girls will like the guy a lot, but if the guy doesn't do anything to pursue them, they just move one assuming the guy didn't want them bad enough.

[TimB -1-2-3]

Oh, I get it... I guess I misunderstood... ;p

I didn't think "chasing girls" would mean conveying interest... I was thinking about a creep following the girls around everywhere XD

[LittlePrincess94]

Yeah it's hard to frame things sometimes

[madi25193]

wen she tells you to leave her alone

but you shud tell her you don't like chasing her all the time and if she likes you to let you in

or if she doesn't feel the same way that you will stop trying to b more and will just b friends

good luck

[LittlePrincess94]

Friend zone sucks, I rather rape her, lol.

[madi25193]

Hehe well if you do that ull get arrested so I think that's out lols

[LittlePrincess94]

Yeah the system is messed up, I want to go back to caver man times and just pull a few girls hair by the neck.