If a girl a) wanted me to chase her and b) led me on even though she has a boyfriend, I'd tell her to go f*** herself. If she was the most gorgeous woman I'd ever seen, I'd rephrase it as "Wow, you're gorgeous. Go f*** yourself."
You have absolute proof that a) she enjoys manipulating your for her own amusement and b) if you ever date her, she'll cheat on you without a second thought. You're not even dating and she's already trying to control you!
If you're into drama, dishonesty, and submission, then by all means, don't let me talk you out of it - that's none of my business. But if you're not, don't bother. Ignoring her will probably make you more attractive to her anyway.
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Eugh! she obviously knows that you like her and loves and the boost that it gives to her ego to know that your there and are into her- its like she has you on a string and enjoys the power of it. The fact that she has a boyfriend means that other than her playing games with you she really has no interest in you, she enjoys the attention and I am pretty sure that if you got a girlfriend she would become more insistent that she liked you and wanted to see how things would go with you only because she was losing that power over you. I think you need to forget her because she is really not worth it- probably best to go for a girl who only wants you !
I wouldn't waste my time hanging around.She doesn't know what she wants but doesn't want to close the door on you yet.She doesn't want you to chase her just because she said that.It's more that she wants to keep you around as back up to go to if her relationship with her boyfriend fails that or she just feels too bad to say she's not interested in that way after showing so much interest in you.If she lets you down now then it makes it look like she lead you on.
I'd ask her if she actually is genuinely interested in having a relationship with you that is on boyfriend level or whatever level you wish it to be.
She wants the attention buddy. If she was serious about you she wouldn't be with her boyfriend. In all honesty stop wasting your time! I know you probably think your situation is different and you really want to believe her but she is the female form of a player. These girls like the temptation of another guy being interested in them but she will not commit to you and why would you want to be with a girl who flirts with another guy if she has a boyfriend. Sounds like she doesn't have much respect for her boyfriend. If you were her boyfriend would you appreciate her saying that to another guy?
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If I were you, I wouldn't chase her. Don't fall into mind games. It just means there will be more in the future. And no one likes mind games. But keep doing what you're doing and don't give up. If you like her, things will either fall into place or not. But keep yourself protected so if nothing comes of it, you won't be hurt in the end.
maybe she's interested but still trying to figure things out with her other relationship...but if she's worth chasing..do it..
She might be interested but she just definately wants attention. I've kept around a guy because I liked the attention. I wouldn't waste my time on her.
not til the boyfriend is gone keep hoping hunn
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