We make plans and he cancels last minute?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean when a guy makes plans with you and cancels at the last minute? I mean obviously he isn't extremely interested or he would do that or at least not more than once, but he has to have at least some interest or he wouldn't make plans to go out with you at all right? is there any way to get him interested enough to actually follow through with plans. I really like this guy and sometimes I feel like he likes me too but then he does things like this. I don't wanna mess things up with him, any advice/

[OutOfMyElement43]

Have you ever been out with him before. I don't like playing games, but I will cancel at the last minute. I hate doing this; because, I hate for someone to cancel on me at the last minute. This is just the only way I've truly found to filter out the physcos.

[Asker]

Yes I've been out with him on real dates before and we study together a lot but this isn't the first time he's done this. wait, so are you saying you cancel on girls because you change your mind at the last minute or what? and what does it mean if he still talks to me and flirts and stuff.

[OutOfMyElement43]

I do it on purpose. I hate to do this; I really hate it. However, it's really the only way to find out would react if I really did have to cancel. If she blows a fuse when I cancel, I know she's not right for me. I just can't handle that kind of irrational behavior. I'd say your guy probably likes you he probably really is busy with school or something. There really are times when you have to cancel at the last minute.

[Asker]

So when I see him should I just act really chill about it? if I do I'm kinda gonna have to back peddle because when he texted me to cancel I was p*ssed and never even texted him back. but I'll do whatever because if I stand a chance I don't wanna mess it up

[OutOfMyElement43]

Yeah, just be cool about it.