How to properly ignore a girl to create attraction?

[Anonymous]

So, I've been talking to this girl awhile and am concerned about being friendzoned. She obviously likes talking to me but we talk too much heading towards friend zone and I was worried I was coming off too desperate by not ending the conversation and allowing it to continue instead.

So I've started ignoring her to be more elusive. It's been a week and she texted me today asking why I've been so quiet. So I pulled the whole "I've been really busy lately and haven't been talkative" speel even though that's not true. Then we texted for a few minutes and I ended the conversation this time. But I feel I'm pushing her away by ignoring, which is the opposite of what I want. This is the only way I know of getting out of the friend zone and Im suspecting by my age , people start to outsmart people's games.

But the question is how do remain elusive, a challenge, unpredictable, and basically ignore someone while showing interest at the sametime?

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To add to it, I want to get to know her more before saying I'm interested in her. But don't know how without putting myself farther into the Friendzone.

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Okay, I decided to cut it out and text her and start talking to her again. But now she's convinced I have a girlfriend now cause I've been distant. But I don't. What do I do now? Also if a girl is concerned about making other girls jealous... does that mean your just a friend and dosent want to push your romantic interests away or is it she's interested and thinks she's only an option?

[Shorty1991]

A lot of guys complain about women they like playing hard to get by ignoring them. Elusive or foolish? It may have the desired effect at first but this reverse psychology will backfire on you sooner or later. Instead of reeling her back in and making her more interested. You will push her away and she'll think you don't even want to be her friend anymore. A shy guy has tried this with me before, because his lurking around after me and invading my space got him nowhere because he was incapable of ever acting on it and couldn't talk to me. So he couldn't have been that serious about me in the first place. Then he started ignoring me and pretending I didn't exist in order to regain my attention, tried talking to other women in attempt to make me jealous I stayed out of his way. I think you should take a more mature approach and discuss this like adults rather than playing these childish games. That guy never knew, that if he had just talked to me, I would have probably given him a chance.

[Asker]

Yeah I tend to be shy. It's harder than you think for a guy to tell a girl you like her. If they don't like you back, they get disgusted and feel betrayed in whatever way. I've manned up before and told a girl I liked her and we'll she didn't like me more than a friend back and she got all pissy with me. She assumed all I wanted was sex which wasn't true at all.. I liked her as girlfriend material. She told me to get out of her face , called me a creep, and If I contact her again , she would call the cops. I somehow betrayed her friendship with me by liking her mote than friends. Some girls are crazy like that and this is what guys have to deal with. Rejection can be more than just rejection... It can be harsh like that. She couldn't just respect me for being honest and growing a pair and handle rejecting me in a mature fashion. If girls were mature about it, I wouldn't be so damn shy. The last time I poked my head out of my shell, it almost got shot clean off!!

[Shorty1991]

Is it really that much harder for a shy guy to tell a girl he likes her than it is for a shy girl to tell a guy that she likes him? I was once shy myself, I had crushes I through high school and I couldn't even talk to them because I turned into a quivering wreck every time I clapped eyes on them. It got me absolutely nowhere. I knew I had to snap out of it. I've told guys I liked them too, because they flirted with me a lot. It turned out that they were already paired off. The last one I told, turned out to be the same and had the audacity to give me a patronizing hug, then talk about me behind my back to his friends. Guys aren't exactly all that mature about it either, especially when they can mess women around like this. Granted, I haven't got a boyfriend yet.

[Shorty1991]

But I still haven't given up. Like it said, the last guy missed his opportunity with me because he spent so much time lurking and dithering around. When he stood next to me all he could do was pretend to look busy. He never acted on it so I got fed up and moved on. That was three years ago. When I see him now, he still watches me talking to other people like he's jealous or something. My point is, that no matter the outcome. The person who has the crush should always make the first move. The mistake they make is wearing their heart on their sleeves right away. They should get to know the person better before doing so. Read the signals and body language. If they are into you, they'll let you know. So now I just talk to guys and get to know them first before I make my move. Its a better way to avoid rejection. If I find out they've got gfs. Then I still talk to them but don't ask them out. If I'm picking up certain vibes that they like me too, then that's a good start.

[Asker]

Well that's what I'm trying to do... getting to know girls before making a move... it makes making a move easier. But popular dating advice and other guys have got it drilled into my head that you have to make a move right away or your seen as a friend and get friendzone and any attractiveness you have fades away. When pressured like that, it's extremely hard to make a move and then I usually shut down and dont. Maybe the crush should make the first move but it can be completely nerve wracking cause having feelings for someone leaves you completely vulnerable and the person is an ass and doesn't like you... they won't just politely reject you but they'll make a fool out of you and tell everyone.

[Shorty1991]

Yep I know I've list count how many I've been through it. Guys think they've got it really bad, but its more or less the same for single women looking for something serious too. That's what a few female friends told me aswell. Note, I'm not friends with them anymore not just because they gave me shit advice but for a lot of other reasons. But nah, I've learned my lessons from diving in and wearing my heart on my sleeve, and procrastinating and leaving it until its too late to act. Its getting the balance right really. Don't act too soon before you even know anything about them and don't leave it too late or they'll think that your not serious about them, get fee up and move on. I've been slated, but you just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and look for someone new. People that lead you on and make a fool of you aren't worth agonising over. You deserve better than them. If they can do that with you just imagine how two faced they would be if you were in a relationship with

[Shorty1991]

With them.

[Asker]

Very true. Thank you very much... you seem like a very nice person. Sounds like the same experience I've had too. Lots of two faced people. I just have a problem of letting stuff get to me... it messes with my thinking, emotions, everything. The first girl I ever dated turned out she was leading me on for like a year. I opened my heart up completely to her and opened up everything and all of sudden she just stopped talking to me. And broke it off by completely ignoring me not even apolgizing. That was like 8 years ago but it still sticks in the back of my mind and reminds me how that feels and makes me question everything I do now

[Asker]

Don't get me wrong, I'm a man and a string person but anybody is vulnerable to getting hurt, I don't care how strong somebody says they are.

[Shorty1991]

Thanks, you seem like a nice decent guy. Its a shame, all of the decent people end up caught in the crossfire. Yeah, im not saying I was strong to begin with the way they used to slag me off behind my back was hurtful. But then I thought, these fuckers don't even have the balls to say it to my face. At least I had the guts to be honest. My balls are so big they were put on my chest to avoid the chafing. But, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. . . right? The more you go through it, the easier it gets to let the shit that they say just bounce right off of you. Now I have the " whatever, I don't care what you think about me". Plenty of experience with rejection makes you stronger. Its like your almost immune to the slating that you get. All they want is a reaction from you. Don't give them one, bite the bullet. I always used to sense a whole lot of expletives coming out of my mouth. Hahaha, and now. . . I wouldn't give these people the reek aff ma shite. ;) Good luck, with dating

[Shorty1991]

In the future. I hope you find a girl that's worthy of you.

[Shorty1991]

* now I have the "I don't care what you think about me" attitude.

[Asker]

I'm trying to be more like that and I'm like 50% I don't care...50% I do care and it factors in. And thank you... I mean very well with the girls I date... it's just I do stupid stuff sometimes like this.

[Anonymous]

Quoting from below: "make ur attraction to her obvious and persistent". That's definitely the key.
And here's what will happen:
1- She doesn't want to date you. Your persistence will make her have to PUSH you away, and that way you will find out that she really doesn't want to date you, AND you will definitely be out of the friendzone and into the avoid zone.
2- She wants to date you. She won't be able to resist your advances for too long if she really likes you.

But I'm guessing what you want is to manipulate her into wanting you. And I don't think that would end in a happy relationship anyway.
What they say out there is not true. Ignoring a girl will not make you seem more attractive to her.

[Asker]

I'm not trying to manipulate her. Just trying not to drive her away.

[WillowTree]

Evading her isn't going to make her like you more. She's going to think you're not into her and eventually pull back or friend zone you for sure just for playing with her emotions. Don't try and mess with her head. If you want her then act like it. If there's a possibility she'll be into you, she'll develop those feelings. If she doesn't and friend zones you, then those feelings were never there in the first place. There's no need for push and pull games. Just show interest in the girl and take her out on a date already.

[Anonymous]

Wow lol... what are you? 15? That doesn't work. It might work if she's ridiculously desperate and you're the first bit of male attention she's had, but no, it won't work on normal girls. She'll either think you're playing immature games and move on, or think you don't really like her and move on.

[Asker]

No I'm 26. And I'm reading too much into the dating literature online. That dating literature online probably just cost me even a friendship with this girl. She's not responding now I'm trying to cut out the No Contact.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't ever read that crap. First of all, every relationship is different depending on the person and just the vibe you both have, so that stuff will never work on all... all women are different anyway, so one thing will never work on all. Second, honestly, I know it's a cliché, but it really is best to be yourself. She'll either like you or she won't, and you'll both know early on.

Look, if she decides to totally cut you out, just explain to her. You've got nothing to lose if you do, because she's already cut you out. Just say "look I really like you, so I was being a real idiot and followed the advice on some mens site about relationships thinking it'd work. I just did it because I really liked you, but now I see I was being an idiot, I know you're gone now but just wanted to explain so you don't walk thinking I'm a dick"
Then she either forgives or she doesn't.

[Asker]

That dating advice online... I don't get the point of why they have to be so convincing. It's like if you don't do A, B, C, and D... you will never have a girlfriend and will fail at life. What are they selling?

And I always have trouble telling a girl I like her... I say it like that, I really like you and all that. And they always take it ohh I'm your best friend. How does a guy be more convincing?

[Opinion Owner]

Often, they give bits of advice and then you'll find they have a book to sell on picking up women or something else to pay for. The free advice is to lure you in usually.

Instead of just saying you like her, maybe compliment her also. Tell her she's hot, sexy etc... Make sure she knows it's not just friendly.

[Asker]

I always compliment. ... sometimes a little too much although I don't mean to. I like somebody that I like to know they're appreciated and I was doing that and it was driving the girls I liked and that liked me back away. I was told to start ignoring and make girls earn compliments and attention.

[Opinion Owner]

Just flirt more on top of compliments maybe. It's easy for a girl to start seeing you as a friend instead if you're not flirting and showing obvious interest. So less friendly, more flirty. Like it's good to be nice and gentlemanly, but make sure you're also being very flirty on top of that.

[Asker]

What do you mean by "flirty"? I feel like I'm being "flirty" and it's not taken as that always and instead as "friendly". I feel like some girls purposely ignore clear signals from a guy to be hard to get

[Opinion Owner]

It's hard to explain. It's about how you look at her- look at her like you want her. The things you compliment her on- not just saying she's pretty, more saying she's hot/sexy, not just that she's nice more that you feel you both click or she's different to other girls, things like that. It's just having game... make her blush lol.

[Asker]

Yeah but I always say pretty or beautiful and never hot because I'm not trying to make the girl out to be a sexual object, I want her to know I respect her and actually like her and care about her too.

[Opinion Owner]

You can do those things while letting a girl know she's hot. Be a little sexual, it's not bad. It's only bad when it's the only thing you're showing her and the only thing you're thinking of.

[JohnDoe3000]

Ignore most of the comments from girls, they sound like your mom telling you girls will like you if you're super sweet to them: being super available and not ending conversations will only work if she's already smitten with you. These girls also seem to be reasoning from the perspective of a very insecure girl who requires guys to do something that backfires 90% of the time (with other girls) to cover up her own insecurity. If you're still building up attraction you indeed need to appear a bit less available. But it's like walking on a tightrope, a week without contact may be a bit too much, but it's a good sign she contacted you first and seemed to have missed you and honestly it sounds like you would have replied if she had texted you sooner (right?), so you're not really playing cruel games here IMHO

[Asker]

Very true. Really I have a busy schedule and I was working hard to make time to text her and talking to her before. Now im just doing it when I feel like it and not making any special effort which might involve ignoring her a week at a time.

[Cosytoasty]

You only play the ignore/hard to get game if you're also talking to other girls and keeping your options open. Doing it with only one is silly, if you've talked for a while just come out with it and ask her out. If she says yes great, if you can't you can move on - either way is better than being in limbo and questioning yourself at every turn.

[ekc8295]

If someone is not attracted to you there isn't anything you can really do to change that. If she is interested in dating you, don't play stupid games. Just let her know you're interested and find out if she reciprocates. That's all anyone can do really.

[Asker]

Well someone can like you back but you then miss the window of attraction. Then you end up in the friend zone. Sometimes ignoring someone... well being "busy" can reset that clock. But not always. If she doesn't like me, she doesn't like me. Fine. But I have no clue how she feels. I can't read people's minds.

[ekc8295]

Most people know right away if they are attracted enough to ever date someone. Their desire to date them might go up or down depending on how much they like their personality but there's usually a certain threshold of attraction that must be met for someone to even be in the "date able" column.

[BackAgain]

So true! If it were me I'd think that the guy lost interest

[JohnDoe3000]

Most people know right away if they find the other person physically attractive. Whether they'll actually date you will depend on things like not coming across as too available, the asker has the right idea.

[Asker]

@JohnDoe3000 Girls find me physically attractive usually. But if I act too available or too interested, it still screws things up. I make the mistake of being one extreme or the other. Either being too available or not available at all. I really don't know where the happy medium is that girls want. Theyre picky about these minor details. Some little weird thing you might do or say might completely turn them off.

[JohnDoe3000]

Yeah, it's hard. Also, there is no middle way that works with every girl.

[TayTay21]

It's not about ignoring the girl, it's about demonstrating that you have value and self-respect. Don't be one of these guys who grovels for a girl's attention.

But with the girl you described, why are you playing games with her rather than asking her out? If you ever want to see her naked, call her and ask her out on a date! If she likes you enough to spend time communicating with you, she's interested enough for you to ask her out.

[Asker]

Because I don't know where I stand with her. Ignoring her is also to gauge interest. And so far it seems like she's ignoring me and not trying to intiate anything. I feel if she liked me, she d be more like what's wrong or desperately trying to stop my ignoring of her. But what I don't get is she likes everything I post on social media like literally within a minute of posting it usually... which is weird to me to almost annoying. I don't like any of her stuff cause I really don't play those social media games.

[TayTay21]

Stop trying to 'gauge interest' and make a move! This girl is paying tons of attention to you, given that she's liking all your social media posts. You're never going to have her unless you step up and make it happen. Your fearing of missing out on sex and a relationship should be stronger than your fear of rejection, especially with all the signals she given. She probably doesn't want to seem desperate and is wondering when you'll do something.

[Asker]

I'm not crazy about her, I'm just interested right now... I want to get to know her more. But im not obsessive like that.

[TayTay21]

Well, you need to figure it out. Don't string her along like a d-bag.

[Asker]

Well I feel she's been stringing me along

[Michonne551]

Ignoring someone won't stop them seeing you as friendship material vs boyfriend material. I'm of the opinion that it basically comes down to attraction. I have never only wanted to be mates with a guy i was genuinely very attracted to. So if she seems keen, pulling away isn't going to change anything about how she feels other than her thinking you're not into her/attracted to her and she might just back off because of a lack of confidence/positive signals from you.

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

Ignoring a girl always alienates her. Girls are emotional, not rational. They can't rationalize the reason why they are ignored, they emotionalize it.
Girls want to be validated, they want to be desired. They want to hear how precious, special and beautiful they are.
That's why you see the ugliest, dumbest guys dating above-average looking women. Not because they ignored her, exactly the opposite. They cat-called her, flirted with her, hit on her, worshiped her and made her feel desired.

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

Validated*

I meant valued.

[Asker]

Yeah but then they're also pushed away with too much attention. It makes you too available, too predictable, too clingy. Then if that doesn't push her away for good, you end up in her friend zone where she uses you to fix her car, move heavy things, a shoulder to cry on... and all those thinga you do, she ll never date you and one day will stop talking to you for no reason. Story of my life. Girls can't rationalize how they're liked either. Some girls like to feel they have compitition.

[WalterRadio]

I like guys like you. It is easy to steal your girlfriend.

You sound wishy washy, unsure, and insecure. Exactly the opposite of what most women find attractive.

Don't ask, tell. Don't play games, lead.

[Asker]

Well I've stole people's girlfriends before so I'm probably not the type of guy your describing.

[WalterRadio]

I am describing the type of guy who wrote the question.

[Asker]

I'm the guy that wrote the question lol

[Letstrend]

Ignoring a girl for attention is lame and childish in my opinion. Man up, approach her and tell her about how you feel. If you feel like you HAVE to ignore her to get some proper attention from her, she's not the one bruh. But don't do that.

[Asker]

Not for attention but more so to not come off so desperate , which I make the mistake of doing a lot.

[Letstrend]

So to not come off desperate, you text her at least SOMETIMES. Don't start fully ignoring her. You can stop texting someone once you notice it's not getting anywhere and she's might not be interested. But don't start fully ignoring a girl, as she might be interested in you as well and you'd eventually miss out. For me personally, in the first stage after meeting a guy, I'd expect him to text me and to keep conversations going. We don't run after a guy (well, confident girls don't), if you start ignoring her all the way than you might miss out on someone great. Fyi.

[Asker]

Well all the advice on the Internet talks about how girls want a challenge and to act hard to get. I DO stop texting people once it's not going anywhere but then again I guess it would be my fault because I allowed the girl to get bored.

[Anonymous]

Never chase a girl. Only text her the same amount she text you.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2036445-why-does-being-nice-to-women-from-the-start-tend-to-drive-them-into

[Anonymous]

I don't think it works with a woman you want to be serious with.

I've been talking to a guy for a while and it's obvious I like him.
Does he worry about going into my 'friend zone'? Nah.

He and I talk a lot, everyday, buuut it's part of the reason I like him. Despite how busy he *might* get, he makes time to talk to me.

I am the same, and am sure he appreciates it in turn.

[chintita]

u dumb for this, guys shouldn't play hard to get bc girls will ignore ur ass.

[Asker]

I think she's onto it. Cause we talked everyday in some shape or form and I thought she'd respond within a day. But nope. 1 week later.

[chintita]

girls don't like that at all, at least i don't nor any of my friends who complain about distant guys. we like being pursued. make ur attraction to her obvious and persistent. tht's the easiest way to get out of the friendzone, not by ignoring her.

[Asker]

Well I hate girls that act distant. And when I pursue a girl, they start acting distant. The only way I've gotten anywhere is by acting distant tho at least in the intial stages and being unpredictable. I don't like to act this way but it's like not distant is acting too clingy. I'm too predictable if I act myself.

[WillowTree]

If those other girls were distant, they just didn't feel that way about you. It happens. The only guys I give the most time of my day are the ones I'm into. If they show enough affection I will either show it back or distance myself. If they pull back when I reciprocate then I think they're just playing mind games with me and I lose hope. It doesn't make me want to try harder because that's just desperate and at my age I don't have time for that. The guy either likes me or he doesn't and I move on to another. Not only that I IGNORE future flirtatious acts because I assume he doesn't like me or will just pull back again. AKA I've been friendzoned.

[Asker]

@WillowTree Well I'm talking about girls that show a lot of interest. Then I start to like them back and show as much interest then they start acting distant. I'm not talking about people who are distant from the get go. Yeah obviously they don't like you. But the ones that show a lot of interest then pull away, it's just confusing.

[WillowTree]

So you're showing *too* much interest to the point they're uncomfortable and feel the need to pull back. Perhaps these girls were just being friendly and not actually as into you as you initially thought? Girls can be friendly with guys without having a single romantic thought about them. We don't even have to find them attractive to talk to them. It comes easy to us. I think you're picking up signals that aren't there and when you respond to their friendliness with romantic interest, they pull away. It happens. Rejection happens. Ignoring girls isn't going to make them chase you. Coming on too strong isn't going to make them chase you. You just have to pace yourself and keep taking chances and learn to move on to the next.

[Asker]

@WillowTree I know the difference between friendly and romantic interest. I'm talking about girls who clearly have a romantic and sexual interest. Some I've gone on romantic dates with where I thought we were hitting it off really well. Then been basically dumped the next day after someone having a huge crush on me. Makes no sense. It's like once I start to like the person back, they lose interest. And again these are people who have clearly had a crush on me. But thing is they only had a crush only when I was still a challenge. Once the challenge is not there anymore, they lose interest.

[WillowTree]

Maybe they saw or heard something they didn't like. That's the whole point of dating. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. You'll be okay.

[Asker]

@WillowTree Yeah but within a couple days. This one girl actually said the date the night before was amazing but could not explain why she why breaking it off with me.

[LittleSally]

First step - be a 12-year old ignoring the other 12-year old. 🐧

[red324]

He's been reading those online pickup artist articles. I made that mistake and all I did was make a complete idiot out of myself. They have some good information in those articles, but most of the information takes things 3 steps too far.

[LittleSally]

@red324 Oh, yeah, I know those. i agree...

[Asker]

I screwed up by listening to those articles. Now that I decided to stop ignoring her, she's ignoring me and not responding now I'm trying to contact her.

[LittleSally]

Who thought that would happen?

https://vevmo.com/sites/default/files/pick-me-o.gif

[Asker]

I screwed up and I'm gonna give up unless she contacts me. I'll act more my age next time. Dating advice tells you to act immature and really I'm just acting at this point... not being myselg.

[LaFemmeFatale]

If someone ignores me then he has no chance to win my heart, SO DON'T PLAY GAMES LIKE THAT.

[Anonymous]

Really? Why the games? Ur gonna make not like you. Women would rather know ur interested than assume ur not. In this game no one wins

[Asker]

Women always win and will always outsmart men with games by confusing them. I don't know why I even try. I guess if she's ignoring me back, she's out smarting my games.

[Anonymous]

Don't play games because I'm in a similar situation and honestly being ignored is the worst thing you can do because she would start to loose interest since she feels you lost interest in her.

[JohnDoe3000]

But right now you are thinking about the guy and definitely don't think he's too clingy/a doormat, so it seems that what he's doing is working, at least if he starts giving you attention again soon enough...

[Opinion Owner]

@JohnDoe3000 yeah that's true but it kind of makes me think less of him and makes me reconsiderate if I should be with him if he is like this.

[JohnDoe3000]

Right, but at least he now has a chance with you if he acts quickly while you might have rejected him otherwise (even if you think you wouldn't have). Or maybe you wouldn't have but he can't read your mind and his experience tells him 9 out of 10 girls would have...

[Opinion Owner]

@JohnDoe3000 yeah I see your point and yeah I guess it depends until what extend you ignore a person you know

[Prof_Don]

One thing u have not mentioned... is that you haven't asked her out yet. You GOTTA make that move sooner!

[DavidGonzalez7]

Try fake looking at other girls while she is around you to create jealousy.

[ZellRocx666]

Ask her questions. Show interest. Thats the only way.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, just go up to her and tell her your feelings, you will come to know. Then you can have sex after a while and most women today give that up pretty quickly and then you are living the dream

[Sara413]

Just be a grown up and tell her you like her...

[cloudyybliss]

Are you saying you like her?

[Asker]

Yeah I do

[cloudyybliss]

If you like her, you shouldn't ignore her. Girls are very sensitive when a person she wanted to talk to ignores her. Take it slowly, you dont need to hurry up. Just open up a conversation and eventually, you'll get to the topic about relationships. Girls are really concerned about making other girls jealous but that doesn't mean he dont want to continue talking to you. It's kind of uhmm, for example, i keep on telling to the guy, "are you sure no girls will get jealous?" i'm waiting for an answer like, " no i dont have a girlfriend or im not dating anyone." or the likes.

[Asker]

Well that's actually what I say and I get the "mhhmm sureee" *I don't believe you*... I don't know how to convince somebody that I'm not dating someone at the moment

[cloudyybliss]

How about you shut her up by telling her you like her. that's all i can think of but you have the decision if you want to do it or not

[Asker]

I gotta start talking to her again because I've been ignoring her for awhile

[cloudyybliss]

you should :)

[Asker]

She's ignoring me now that I tried. I'm getting a stiff cold shoulder.

[cloudyybliss]

It's alright. Girls are like that and yes including me. When a boy and a girl like each other and the boy starts ignoring the girl for a complicated reason. of course the girl would ask herself if she did something. She would ask the boy this and that but once, the boy realizes his mistake for ignoring the girls and started talking to her again its time for the girl to be upset. And the cycle goes again. I think that you should explain everything to her and make it clear to her.

[Asker]

I hate these situation's cause then you feel like you gotta stick to your guns and both people do that... the stalemate never ends until both parties walk away. Cause then i get pissed off for her getting pissed off at me... then she gets pissed off at me. I have no clue if this is the reason she's ignoring me... I don't want to say that and come out of nowhere and she responds like what are you talking about? That embarrassing. She couldve lost interest or has a new guy interest and doesn't want to talk to me anymore or as much.

[Asker]

Lol probably just better to lie and make something up that the other person did to piss you off even though it didint otherwise they get pissed once they realize they did nothing. I hate lying tho.

[cloudyybliss]

I think that'll be a good idea to "say that and comes out of nowhere." i know that it will be embarrassing but think again, that will be the time that she will be forced to speak. Show her that you are getting pissed off and talk to her about the "ignoring" part. It's 50/50 tho. There's a chance that you guys will be cool with each other again but the other one is that she might get angry than ever but you have the decision. I just think that i'll be better to show her that what she's doing right now is making you pissed off so bad.

[carinerose]

You ignore me--it's done, finito, termindao, fini.

[Asker]

Seems like it's fine line cause if you talk to a girl too much , it's done etc. Lol

[carinerose]

No. That's being clingy. Find a good balance, but don't ignore.

[Asker]

Yeah well all girls are different. Some like talking to a guy everyday and others think a guy is clingy if they talk to them more than once a week.