While a female friend and I were chatting, she placed her hand on my shoulder and called me a 'Chocolate Boy' with a grin on her face. What does it mean to call a guy 'Chocolate Boy'? Do you believe it is something positive or negative?
The term "chocolate boy" is used to describe a male (often straight) who is meticulous about his appearance. People use "Chocolate Boy" to refer to a young, attractive man with a nice and amiable attitude. It's a term that Bollywood popularized and is frequently used to refer to male actors who appear to be young and gorgeous.
If someone refers to you as a "chocolate guy," it typically means they find you charming and handsome, much like how people are drawn to the flavor of chocolate. Yet, because it has historically been used to describe Black people with darker skin tones, the term can also have racist implications. It's crucial to consider the context and intent of such a term's use.
Depending on the situation and the motivation behind the words, being referred to as "chocolate guy" by a girl can either be positive or negative. It could be disrespectful and harmful if the female uses the term in a negative way or to make fun of the person's skin tone. On the other side, the term may be viewed as flattering if it is used kindly, as a term of endearment or praise for the person's complexion.
O. o are you black?
Obviously she meant it in a playful humorous way, almost complimentary. Had she had ill intent, she would not have touched your shoulder.
I wouldn't automatically assume it's racial, but it does sound a bit funny.
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did she say white chocolate, milk chocolate, or dark chocolate, or hazelnut, or worse... that "spicy" cayene choc?
no idea...
Watch out for the girls that suggest you are randomly filled with various cremes chocolate.
It's used for a person with dark skin and a beautiful appearance. It is a jargon that is used to describe people with a rich, and silky skin which is similar to the texture and color of chocolate. This phrase refers to a physical aspect of a person's skin color but has no scientific validity and is only used in social contexts.
Chocolate is dark, and your skin is most likely dark. Chocolate tastes sweet, and so you're probably sweet in her eyes.
She thinks you're sweet, or wanted to compliment you and didn't know what to say
Lol is a Dutch word (not an acronym) which, coincidentally, means 'fun' ('lollig' means 'funny')
It means you are very nice and sweet.
She might bite you :D
Maybe you're as dark as chocolate?
Dark skin
She wants to eat you
Its racist.
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